I'm emotionally unstable right now, I'm 13 and I really need someone's help before I just break down?

Question

I'm 13, and I've had this wonderful 17 year old math tutor since April 2008. He has came twice a week and really helped me pass 7th grade math. My mom got the math textbook a few weeks ago, and he was supposed to come starting today (twice a week) to help prepare me for 8th grade in September... so then I could just read the notes over and over again before school starts so I can have a more better understanding of what will be presented in class. I was so looking forward to today, and my mom is at work and just called and told me she cancelled him because I don't do enough around the house and she lied to him on his message and told him she can't afford him due to financial problems. I'm literally sitting her sobbing my eyes out because I was really looking forward to today and the next upcoming weeks with him, and now it's all gone and I'm so stressed and crying right now. I can't even breath, I'm about to break down and I'm not old enough to handle this without help. Please help me.

Answer 1

He is too old for you anyways...he probably views you as a child, and is happy he doesn't have to spend some of his summer babysitting you.  Quit crying the world is not going to end!

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After reading previous questions of yours...are you the mom or the child, because you have questions as the mother and the child??? Or did you make this account up and are neither of them people...and just asking random questions?

Answer 2

Listen:

It is ok to have crushes, its ok to think that guy in your history class is cute or whatever

But it is not ok to be emotionally attached to someone (like you are) to some guy at your age

You are only 13 and you will meet so many amazing guys in your life but you will also meet some real jerks

I wonder if you even need tutoring anymore or if you are just doing it to see 17yr old Prince Charming the Math Tutor.

At 13 you shouldnt focus on guys. like i said b4 it is ok to have a crush but dont be emotionally attached. Focus on school family and friends. And dont be mad at your mom bc she is always going to be your mom so you might as well get along with her.

Answer 3

That was pretty crappy of your mom to basically ground you from something that can really help you in school.  Would have been much better (for your future, I mean) to ground you from the TV, or hanging out with friends, or something like that.

But...you sound like you're not sad about losing the tutoring.  You sound like you're sad that you won't be spending time with him as a friend, or maybe you even like him?

Answer 4

Your mom will regret it when she sees that your grades aren't up to par-cancelling tutoring is a senseless way to discipline you!!! Are you in love with him?

Answer 5

I think your mom made up that excuse that you dont do anything around the house because she sees through you right now. You have a total crush on this older boy. You are only 13 aand he is too old. And was there something extra going on(more than a crush,did it go father than that, were there feelings returned?)  because it seems like you are taking it kinda hard. How do you know what your mom told him, are you talking to him on the side behind her back? You should be honest with her. As for the heartbreak, You will be ok. At that age boys come and go. When school starts there will be a new cute boy or some of the neighborhood boys that have grown up over the summer that will make you forget all about him.

Answer 6

Get over it, hes 17, these guys are into girls their age, he probably views you as a child, and would never think of doing anything wrong.