I'm expected to do alot ?

Question

I'm expected to cook clean basically do everything and i actually got to get on the computer 2 day oh im only 14 and my dad wont let me see my bf cause hes 16

Answer 1

If you will get into the habit of being smart and a good worker now you will make it farther in life because you wont be so lazy.  It is a good habit to build.  Cleaning is a part of life unless you want to be nasty.  I  agree you need a little life but we have to grow into that also .  

Answer 2

Well my mom is from the Philippines and she had to cook, clean, and take care of her 7 sisters and brothers and go to collage at the same time. And she never got to be with friends.  

Answer 3

You have a very smart father there.  

Answer 4

Doing chores around the house is not expected to do a lot.

You are expecting your dad, to keep a roof over your head, food on the table, clothes on your back, spending money for any of your desires.

Doing the chores and learning responsibility will only build character and help you prepare for the real world where grown ups reside.

As far as having an older boyfriend, at your age that is a big difference and your dad is only trying to protect you. You are still the child and his responsibility, if the relationship is special, it will last till you are older and your father is willing to let up some.