I'm finding it hard to be alone..?

Question

im 14 and i used to have alot of friends, i still do but now i hardly even like them. they're really different from me and i cant find anything in common with them anymore, i hate most of them now. my best friend got a girlfriend so i feel like im shifting away from the only person who REALLY understands almost everything about me, and if i lose her then i'm friendless. im used to being alone but sometimes i get depressed because i feel like i dont have anyone. i think most of it comes from being home alone everyday from 8am-8pm, but i've been finding myself more and more depressed lately and my only escape is the computer. i want to go out and have a life, but theres no one to hang out with anymore.. sometimes i get feel so alone and depressed i just start crying

i feel really alone, what should i do?

Answer 1

I'm exactly the same as you, but I never had that many real friends, they were all like school friends and the 1 girl that was my real friend, she was basically my best friend, has not called me all summer, we got into a fight on my birthday and when I called her she said she was not mad anymore but she has been doing other things, my birthday was on june 18 and I called her last week, so yeah I also feel depressed and I feel like I wasted my whole summer vacation just watching t.v. and going on the computer, so I'm right there with ya

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Answer 2

i'm in the same situation and I'm 19...yup, still trying to find friends who are good enough. i have a bf so i guess i'm not that alone...

you should really just make new friends from school. or go hang out at the mall or something where there's a wider spectrum of ppl. You could even end up meeting people from other schools.

Answer 3

The answer to your question is so obvious that you missed it.

Go out, because you are sick of being at home.

Make new friends like you, because your old one's are not anymore.

To have a friend, first BE a friend.

You know how to do that!

^j^

Answer 4

when i was ur age ,i also have lots of friends but as we grew we became strangers with each other maybe bcoz of the nature of differences. young people have a tendency to find something new in thier life like ur friends. u easily get bored doing the same thing in your life. so why not try something new like hanging with new friends, reading books or find your talent.by doing new things in ur life u will be able to find urself. ur so young to feel depressed.just enjoy life.