I'm g*y, but I'm not ready to be completely out...?

Question

that said, i have been very weary of meeting girls. i was in a 7 year relationship that was all secret. she cheated on me and the relationship ended. it's been 2 years. here's my question...do you know of a way to find L*****n bars/clubs in your area? i don't know where to start.

Answer 1

You literally have the world at your fingertips in the form of the internet.  I'm sure you can find something.

In defense of your ex, it's too hard to keep a relationship that has to remain secret.  I'm surprised you made it 7 years.  I mean, I commend you on that, but maybe now you should give some thought to coming all the way out and living the life you want to.

Answer 2

Try posting an ad on your local craigslist.org or put up a bio on hotornot.com

Answer 3

I too am g*y, and I am too afraid of being comepletely open, and though I am a guy, I stil relate to the struggle you are having. My advice is talk to the people you trust, tell the rest later, later on! As far as clubs, I would look online and I would try to fing a local or somewhat local g*y/L*****n support group, that may help too. I know I had to go to bars and literally tell people I didnt know I was g*y, just to get a good tip, but I think the support group is a better idea!