I'm g*y and i have such an extraordinary life but?

Question

Lucy: it's sounds wonderful, i obviouly have some research to do.

Answer 1

Cant you just go on holiday?

Answer 2

are u g*y?

Answer 3

Be thankful that you live somewhere nice! I get snow from September-May! My hat always ruins my hair, and waiting for the bus when there is 2 feet of fresh snow, its almost pitch black out at 7.40am, and its -40 degrees celcius, the 4 seasons thing isnt that great. We also dont really get spring or fall, it just goes, snow, then sun!

Answer 4

man when that cold north wind blows up your butt you might want to reconsider but the 4 seasons can be very pretty.

Answer 5

give and take my child, becuase that key to good marriage. I think south fla is great state for g**s. Snow is over rated when you hqave dhovled it at four clock in the morning or all bloody night. i would advise both of you give and take, but move to state that is g*y friendly. also get married it is your right as human being and as American.  

Answer 6

move to seattle, even though we have a lot of rain we still have some snow in the winter and we have warm summers. It's really nice  

Answer 7

Come up to Massachusetts, we're a state that's accepting of homosexuals (P-Town!) we have all 4 seasons, farms, lots of history, the beach, and it's just a great state....

See if your boyfriend likes it.

Answer 8

If you're looking for four seasons I live in Northern Idaho. Apparently Idaho isn't a very popular state but I feel it fits your description perfectly! We have very distinct seasons. Last winter we had record snowfall, a beautiful white Christmas. Now that it's summer we're having 90 to 100 degree days "on occasion" and spring is just nice 60-70 degree weather, fall is rainy and colorful. It's perfect here, you can live in the country and be minutes away from a decent sized city. Theres farming and what not. I've lived here my entire life and I don't ever plan on leaving. Also it's very accepting to g*y and L*****n couples.

Answer 9

You should sit down and have a conversation about this with your boyfriend. If you both can't come to an agreement, then you have to respect his decision to want to live in south Florida and he should respect your decision to move to a northern state, and then perhaps you should both go your own separate ways, because if he’s not going to be happy in a northern state, and if you’re not going to be happy in south Florida, then the relationship won’t work.

As for where to live in the northern US, I wouldn’t recommend Nebraska or Okalahoma because seriously, there’s nothing to do there, but I suppose if you like that, then visit and see what you think, but I would suggest anywhere in New England. I live in Massachusetts and we get all 4 seasons with cold snowy winters. Massachusetts, New Hampshire, Connecticut, Vermont and upstate New York are all lovely places. Maryland and the DC area get all 4 seasons and it's a great area to live.

Answer 10

If you have a lover who truly cares about you, you have the most important thing you could have.  If you are not subject to restrictions -- get a summer home on the cape and enjoy MA for part of the year and then FL for the winter.  You could go down considerably after he does...

Kind thoughts,

Hermes

Answer 11

You're asking a bunch of total strangers how to convince YOUR boyfriend of something? We don't know him, so why would you expect us to be able to supply you with an argument that might convince him?

Tell him your reasons. Find out his. Have a conversation. You shouldn't need other people to help you communicate.

Answer 12

There is a lot more to life than 4 seasons - so you need more reasons to move.  Have you looked into the cost of living, job market, crime rates, employment rates and other aspects of living where you want?

Also, you don't have a clear cut idea - Oklahoma OR Nebraska???  I wouldn't want to move either if you did not have more specific ideas in mind.

Answer 13

I used to live in Commack, Long Island, NY when I was younger but then my parents decided to move the family down here to South FL (Weston) and trust me I understand what you mean when you say you want four seasons. Down here in SoFla the seasons are hot, mildly hot, hot, and very hot. Which is so.... blah. All I do is look at pictures of places up north or mid-east/west and wish we had such beautiful scenery (waterfalls, mountains, forests, etc). I am definitely moving to a different state once I finish college. Oklahoma is gorgeous, as well as Nebraska. I've heard great things about Colorado, Idaho, Indiana, Texas (mid and northern area), Rhode Island, Ohio, etc. I suggest just really looking online and asking around when it comes to choosing a new living space. You might also want to consider trying to find a g*y friendly community. As far as convincing your boyfriend, who knows. You can't force someone to move, especially if they currently have a stable job, and all of their friends and family live where they do. If you feel bold enough, you can say you are going, with or without him. Maybe that will convince him.