I'm getting abused. What do I do?

Question

I only hang out with boys because...they are the only one's I can hang out with because I don't know any girls in my neighborhood.

All of them want to do it to me and I tell every last one of them "NO".

So they get mad, and just start BEATING ME DOWN.

I mean literally, BEATING ME. One boy chocked me so hard.

I blacked out. Don't know for how long. But when I got back up.

They where all just talking.

When ONE boy is beating me....others are laughing.

I don't know what's so funny about that but...whatever.

And I can't stop hanging out with them because...I have NO other friends and...I hate staying in house.

So what do I do? Because when I fight back...you don't even want to know...

Be aware...I'm 13!

Answer 1

That is some cold stuff happening to you.

Tell someone.Like ur parents.

Answer 2

Ha! That's right sue their ***es.

If your really serious you need to stop hanging out with them, apparently they have no respect for you, so why should you want to be in their presence? And they could end up killing you one day, and you would be wishing that you never met them in the first place.

You can meet better people then them. I don't care how hard it is for you to make new friends, go out there and meet some **** girls.

Just for your safety. Please listen to what everyone is saying.

Answer 3

Gosh...wht ru doing to urself!? Ppl r abusing u physically and all u can say is u have no other friends? Listen this is something serious. STOP HANGING OUT WIT THOSE JERKS. I rather be friendless. If u wanted solution u wud have keep urself AWAY frm the guys.

There s nothing anyone can do if ur not helping urself first. Ur offering urself for trouble on a plate. U will find friends if u just open ur eyes a bit and definately u ll get better friends than the ones ur wit now.

Start talkin to the gals in ur class. Ask them wht s their plan and join them.  

Answer 4

This happened to someone i know, Tell parents, there is also a restraining order. Also quit hanging out with them, Your young, so its unexpected for this to happen, but hang out with them when your older, they'll learn and mature.  

Answer 5

tell your parents. stop hanging around with those boys.

Answer 6

im srry about that but you dont need to hang around them they might hurt you relly bad plese tell your parents and go get some new friends

Answer 7

Tell somebody BESIDES the strangers on the internet.

And do the American thing! Sue them! Get 'em into court and sue em.

Or better yet, get an older brother (if you have one) or somebody big to go out there and beat the living tar out of them.

NOBODY. No guy should EVER hit a girl.

Answer 8

You NEED to tell someone, you parents, any adult. Get away from the boys and ignore them. Find some friends at school and dont say you cant find any because there HAS to be someone you could hang out with. If they boys still bother you when you stop hanging out with them try asking your parents to move somewhere eles.

Best of luck with life!

-PinkGrape

Answer 9

R you serious?  I hope to God it's not real, but, I have some family in the bay area (California) and I know that it's a reality.  I'll be honest.  You don't need those guys.  They're not friends.  I think you figured that out.  So step two: yes you really can ditch them.  If you don't, next thing you know they're not going to beat you up, they're gonna start getting some.  It's not okay.  So, get smart.  Literally.  Ditch them and stay at home, and work on getting your school work out of the way.  Put your nose in a book and get an online job!  (work in my room. com)  Make your money and set yourself up for success not failure.  As for the other girls in your neighborhood, they're prolly scared of you!  Be a loner for a couple of months, and then you can start from scratch in the girl world.  Good luck.

Answer 10

STAY AWAY FROM THEM!!!

THEY ARE NOT YOUR FRIENDS!!!

They are not worth your time.

Friends respect and takes care of each other.

They don't abuse you.

Hang out with the right kind of friends.

I know they are just around.

You're still very young.

Just be patient.

You'll find them.

Be good...

Be happy!!

Answer 11

Coming from a person who has been there.

When I was a teenager only guys would have anything to do with me, but they never beat on me. I am so sorry to hear this.

Now I know and understand what it is like sitting at home with no friends trust me I have been there more then once in my life. Needless to say that is not an easy life for anyone. However, when it come to.

A. hanging out with guys who beat you and chock you to the point you black out. Who is to say they are not raping you while your passed out? Have you ever thought of that? It could happen and you never know it.

Or

B. Be friendless for a while until I was able to get back to school were I could meet new and safer friends.

I do believe I would take B. due to the fact that I am not being beat on, taking advantage of by the boys and or gang raped by them, (IF that was the case).

If your not careful one day when they are chocking you you might black out and never wake up.

These are things to think about.

I know being a teenager is hard. I have been there and my teenage years were h**l of a lot worse then what you are saying. Yet that's another story.

What you need to worry about is your safety.

Friends come and go. You only have one body and one life time so protect it while you still have the chance to do so.

Remember this a true friend will guide and protect you at all times.

Also you need to tell your parents. Just like you told us.

If your parents get upset they are not up set with you for say they are upset with the guys that hurt you. Remember that.

I hope this helps.

Answer 12

With friends like that, you're better off hanging out alone.

You could try getting involved in school activities, to meet and befriend other girls with YOUR interests.

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Either way, you should tell mom and dad about what those boys are doing, and then STAY AWAY from them! They have NO rights to be putting hands on you, they have NO rights to be trying to make you do things you don't want to do.

Are you willing to keep hanging around these fools until one of them goes too far and you end up dead??

Answer 13

thanks for answering my question. anyway im sorry to say this but it is much better to have NO friends for a certain period of time than to have abusive friends like that. i mean they beat you?!?!?!? thats way too much. your parents dont say nothing when you come home with injuries or bruises and all that. wow they beat you cause you dont want them to do you thats just wrong just forget them. even my friends that are guys dont touch me for no reason no matter how much i mess with em. i say the best thing to do is to just leave em for now and when school starts make some new friends and maybe tell em about these guys and then if your friends are tight or just dependin on them they might either A) spread the word about these guys who'll get a bad reputation in your school or B) jump em. simple as that. just ignore em. whenever you see em unless you know their apologizing.

Answer 14

Stop being stupid and tell your parents. It's better to stay in the house instead of getting beat up and who knows, a guy might already gone his way with you. And you still go over there??? Get your a s s up and go straight home like a responsible person because you know what's happening isn't safe.

xoxo

-Blah

Answer 15

do you not think that it would be better to stay in then to put up with somebody beating on you.i know that you say that you don't like to stay in but if this keeps going on pretty soon it is going to get serious and one day they may even kill you accidentally.please tell someone whats going on before its too late.no one has the right to put their hands on you no matter how old they are

Answer 16

did they rape you or anything you said you blacked out and you dont know for how long you should  have told your mom and dad

Answer 17

Dont be foolish! be mature!! dont hang out with them anymore!! go get a BF or something to protect you, or tell your parents ASAP.

Answer 18

I dont know why you are hanging out with people who beat you, just walk around your neighbourhood and see if there are any girls around your age whom you can speak with.

Also if you let these guys beat you now, then you will probably get beaten by guys when you are an adult, so its best to stand up for yourself and tell them where to go.

If you choose not to do this then you cannot complain about being beaten up, because you are allowing them to do it.

Talk with your parents about it and see a counsellor.

Answer 19

And what every one else said

Either have no friends, hang with family siblings, cousins, or maybe even join a church group if you are desperate, maybe you should also look into going to the ymca and joining the boys and girls club maybe you can make friends there, Look into Youth Groups or something.

But when you go back to school you will most likely make new friends, be friendly and introduce yourself to people whom you may want to hang out with.

Answer 20

try to make other friends. join something like volleyball or cheerleading or something like that where you have meetings. that will keep you busy and there are girls there on your team to hang out with.

Answer 21

you need to tell someone...like your parents. and im sorry to be the one to break it to you but those are not the people you should be hanging around in the first place. Stay at home if it's a safe place to be

Answer 22

she posted it in mental health shes crazy

Answer 23

Oh you are too young..Thats up to you actually. You better stay home and help your parents not to go around with boys who you dont know well.  

Answer 24

tell an adult or your parents and it's easy to make friends. just go talk to one of the girls in your neighborhood. i'd rather have no friends then have guys that beat me up. go out and do something but not with them.

Answer 25

dude any guy that would hit a girl is a low life chump dont mess with them you will find people to talk to in school just start talking to people.

Answer 26

I don't get it!

You don't like hanging around the house so you go and get bashed..??? Did I miss something...that doesn't make any sense to me.

Is it worse at home?

You need to stop hanging with these guys...what if things escalate and get worse???

Sitting at home watching a movie, reading a book, going on the computer etc..has to be better than hanging with these guys...

Answer 27

one thing you can do is learn self defense see if you can enroll into a Marshal arts class or something

the other thing is STOP HANGING AROUND WITH THOSE BOYS find some other friends real friends you go to school right see if you can hang around some people in your class or something

you also need to tell some one your being abused this can have serious psychological effects in the future if not already trust me I KNOW

it doesn't have to be your parents but they should know so they can get you the appropriate treatment but you dont have to tell them directly you could tell an adult that you feel more comfortable talking to