I'm getting married and I want my little brother in the wedding. He's 11 what should he be?

Question

I'm going to be the groom.

Answer 1

Usher

Jr. Groomsmen

He is old enough to do both of these I think.  

Answer 2

an usher  

Answer 3

im 11, make him a groomsman

Answer 4

I got a really good one for you that would make him really happy let him be ( the bestman) that wont get drunk

Answer 5

the ring barer

Answer 6

I think he should be the Ring Bearer :]

have a great wedding :]

andd have a great dayy

Answer 7

LOL all these people think youre a girl

I would actually say an usher over a ring bearer

Usually ring bearers are 3-8. He's a little too old to

have the "cute little pudgy kid" effect on people.

But h**l be cute being a little usher.

Congratulations :)

Answer 8

I had a similar situation when I got married, although I was the bride and it was my little sister who was 9.  I opted to make my older sister my matron of honor and my little sister my maid of honor.  So I think it would be great if you had your little brother be a second best man.  Obviously he can't help with the bachelor party but it is something he will never forget!  Good luck and congrats!!

Answer 9

The one to tell you not to, as it'll end in tears...

Answer 10

Ha ha he may be the best man, not ruined yet! jk

Ring bearer, usher, maybe even give you away if your father isnt there!

Give him the second dance or something, too.

Answer 11

It's not too old to be ring bearer. However, he could be a groomsman, too.

Answer 12

He's old enough now to be considered too old to be a ring bearer, and just the right age to make a good groomsman or usher.

Answer 13

The ring bearer :)

Answer 14

Either ring bearer or groomsman.

Answer 15

the ring bearer

Answer 16

the Usher

Answer 17

ring barreirrrr ???

Answer 18

Ask your soon to be husband if he can be the ring bearer.

Answer 19

I think he should be a groomsman. Even the best man, if you prefer. Age shouldn't matter.

Answer 20

Usher, junior groomsman, honor attendant (either bride's or groom's).  If he is brave in front of crowds, he could do a reading.  He can hand out programs or bubbles.  He could be an acolyte, lighting candles.

He is too old to be the ring bearer, as others have suggested.  Please forget that idea.

Answer 21

Hi.  Please do NOT make him the ring bearer as others have suggested.  I think he is a bit too old for that.  The usual age for that is 4-8 or possibly 9.  Will he be 12 by the time your wedding day comes?  Whether he is 11 OR 12, please make him a junior groomsman.  And, contrary to popular belief, you do NOT also need to have a junior bridesmaid.  

OR...he could be an usher.

Answer 22

My fiance and I both have siblings about that age so we are having them be in our line as groomsmen/bridesmaids. We didn't want to have ringbearer/flower girls so this was the option we decided on. And the kids are excited about being involved in the wedding. It is something they will never forget doing.

Answer 23

alot of people said ring bearer, but he may be embarrassed to be ring bearer because that's usually for a little boy who's very very young.

i would say make him a jr groomsmen, so he can stand up there with you and all the other groomsmen. or he could be an usher and usher guests to their seats when they arrive.

Answer 24

What ever you want him to be

Answer 25

ringbearer

Answer 26

He can be an Usher....or a Jr. Groomsmen.

Answer 27

The best man. There is no age limit for best man and if he was your only brother, your brother would feel on top of the world.