I am 14 and sometimes have this horrible feeling my "friends" don't care about me. They never call me, I am the one who calls them. They make excuses not to hang out with me even if they were the one to make plans.
Also they act embarrassed and don't say much when I invite them to eat lunch with me at school during the school year. A lot of times people say something like "we'll email over the summer" or "you should play softball with me and my friends" and then don't follow through.
I've tried slipping my friends my phone # or something and saying "I haven't heard from you in a while, maybe you should call me sometime" and even talking to them when that didn't work.
This isn't just with one group of friends but almost every friend I've ever had. I'm not sure why because I would consider myself to be a very good friend, and people have even told me so. I don't understand what I'm doing wrong. Do you guys have any advice?
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