I'm giving up on having a baby, plz look azt my chart?? this is getting to stressful?

Question

http://www.ivillage.com/fertilitychart/?c=rILJoA6zic%2FGdZk1v%2BWSNVQfyzSW8AdL

Answer 1

Don't give up yet. How long have you been charting and on medication? If it's only been a short time, don't be so discouraged. It takes time for some.

I know how it feels to be stressed out while ttc. I used to think about it every waking second, always wondering what I should do and not do and what to take and not take to help my situation. My chart used to be all over the place too. A couple months after I decided to not worry about it, my chart smoothed out (97.8 pre-ovulation and 97.5 post). I'm not pregnant yet, but it's a start! As soon as I can get cycles that are the same length so I know when to expect ovulation instead of finding out about it after it's already over, I think it will happen.

The moral is, hang in there. If the doctor says wait until you have a full period, then you just have to wait, as hard as I know it is.

Good luck to you.

Answer 2

Hi, sorry your cycle is so messed up, mine was too for the last 2months (one cycle) and yet only time was the key, and I was on CLomid and Metformin (for PCOS) so AF shouldn't of been skipped as it was. Anyway going by your chart - saying it's all over the place is an understatement isn't it, your cycle is definitely off and I would not listen to that nurse and I would get a second opinion as to why the bleeding and spotting is happening like that, it seems to be a bit too much to be considered normal. I wouldn't fret soo much just yet but definitely see a doctor about it (not a nurse they don't have even half the training of a doc).

It is a stressful time ttc especially with fertility issues or irregular cycles etc, but don't give up try to keep your chin up that it will happen.