I'm going mad, why doesn't he do anything?

Question

been out 5 times with a great guy who was with his last gf for 2 years and I know they did everything short of full s*x (we have a mutual friend who introduced us). he drives about 10 miles to see me, we go out and have a great time then he drives me home and just kisses me goodbye. he never tries anyhting else, I do not expect s*x but a cuddle or grope would be nice, we are both 20 and I am frustrated as he seems to like me and I like him

Answer 1

Why not suggest going away just for a weekend?Camping is a cheap way of getting close but seriously a hotel break.

Answer 2

nextbtime you are in the car together, reach over and give him a w@nk

Answer 3

Why dont u make the first move and see how he responds?

Answer 4

why don't you make the move if you want it that bad

Answer 5

maybe he is just not ready. i dont think you should push him as if it was the other way around people would be having a go at him. i think you should just give him time and get to know him and maybe he will get more comfortable. also it doesnt always have to be the boy that makes the first move. hope iv helped. good luck . x

Answer 6

He may just want to show you that he has respect for you and thus wants to take things slowly and build a relationship with you, i.e. emotional connection before physical.

If you want more then take the lead but dont take it too far as it might put him off if he's taking things slowly.

5 dates isnt that long if you havent had the opportunity to get intimate either, in the car isnt the most romantic venue. Why not get him over for DVDs on the sofa and see how things go from there, give him the right environment and the right signals.......

Answer 7

Give it time, maybe he doesn't want to rush things.

He might be scared that you don't want him to and doesn't want to force you.

If he doesn't make a move after quite a while then maybe you should try.

If its meant to happen then it will! Dont rush it.