I'm going to kill myself.....?

Question

I don't think I would resort to that but I truely need some help and guidance in where my life is going. I am 18 years old and have almost no life. I had two previous girls in my life but I screwed them up before they even got started. So to this day, I have never kissed a girl. I don't think I am ugly at all, I just have a problem. I hear that a negative attitude is contagious as well as a positive attitude and my best friend hates his life currently and always talks about it and I think I caught it from him.

I have tried to meet girls on myspace, facebook, and even a free site called "plentyoffish.com" and got a psycho chick out of it who I never even met. So there has been no luck in doing in on the internet.

I am currently looking for my first job since I'm already done college. i went to an all male high school (big mistake) and I went to a 9 month Tech School. I do have a little bit of a life, most of it is xbox live and the computer (I help run a gaming website.)

6'5, slim, don't think I'm ugly. I have confidence in myself but I'm trying to unleash it and have the fun that I never got to have before. since I will be getting a job this month and a car just weeks after getting the job....I think what I need is to meet some girls to help me out. Any suggestions cause I really hate doing that c**p on over the internet cause they have like a 99% chance of not working out and create problems. So anyone have suggestions?

Thanks alot.

Answer 1

will yes i'm a girl and i'm going to give you suggestions on that what ever you doing probably sowing off are maybe don't know how to say the right thing to a lady  cause some  lady's like to be traded in a different way some like to be walking on the moon walk and others would love to maybe travel the world you see that's why you all ways ask the girl what she like to do for  her day they love that well most of them do some don't so it's really hard .

Answer 2

I say you get rid of your negative friend.   Don;t surround yourself in that then you will think like that.  Try going to the mall, movies, parks.  There are lots of girls that will be your friends.  Your still young have some fun and don't be in a hurry to find a girlfriend.  Go out and make some new friends.  Let nature take its course.  Have fun.  To make you feel a little better I will be your new friend.  

Answer 3

Okay, this sounds all wrong. You just want to kill yourself because you haven't had any girlfriends in your life?!? There's always someone for everyone. Internet isn't the best way to find someone. You're not alone, alot of people can't date till their 18 because they're parents are very strict. So maybe get a part time job somewhere and meet people.  

Answer 4

I don't understand how you can be finished with college at the age of 18 unless your a genius or I misunderstood and you quit.   On line chatting may be fun, but you need to find face to face avenues so you can learn to interact with people or the ladies on a normal level.   You can try going back to school.   Many colleges have classes for the general population such a beginners photography for example.   Find a class that sounds like fun and then you can meet new people.   You can also try looking at churches in your area who have singles groups.  Go to a gym and work out and meet people there.  The point is get out and make yourself known.   Don't hide behind a computer.   One last thought.   Do not ever blame another person for your problems or actions.   You have to live your life and you alone are responsible for how it is turning out.   But the great thing is, your young and you have plenty of time to turn things around.      

Answer 5

ok first get rid of ur friend hes not gonna help

and maybe ur just a late bloomer or something :)

but trust me, there is a girl out  there for u and she will come along, soon

God doesnt give us things, he gives us opportunitys to get the things we desire

Answer 6

I opened your question because my soon to be 18 year old daughter says the same thing a lot. Whitch brings me to the answer to your question. You are not alone and if you just hang in there you'll soon see that this is just the beginning of a great journey.