I'm happy being fat, but I want to look flirty... ? ?

Question

How to be fat and still make a guy look twice? Without having to bare my b*****s much at all.

Please, no 'inspirational' comments about how I don't need to do anything for a man and that I should lose weight for myself ... et cetera... I just want to look s**y and hide my bum a little - and look flirtacious.

Yes, that's it - I want to look flirty. I can do s**y - but how about fun and flirty?

Answer 1

this may sound mean but i will be honest, the only guy you are going to get being fat, is one that you will have to " settle for" so idk id lose the weight if i were in your place.

People always say the only thing fat girls have going for them is their b***s. but idk.

Babydoll shirts? tunics? high waisted jeans?

Answer 2

you will hate me for this, but its true in our shallow world. bottom line fat chicks will always struggle with finding a guy, unless hes sub-standard. once in a blue moon it may workout, but most guys don't want a fat women. i'm glad you're happy with your size, but in my opinion fat chicks aren't flirty or s**y and the only way they turn my head is to look the other way. sorry but most guys feel the same way!

Answer 3

Oh, don't listen to people telling you silly things like all you've got is cleavage- they're wrong. There are a million gorgeous and fun plus-sized girls that are very attractive. All you have to do is find some nice clothing patterns that flatter your particular shape and work from there. Empire waists and A-line skirts usually do well on fuller figures and are very feminine and flirty, especially if the fabric flows a bit. Jeans and slacks with the right amount of flare will do you good. Experiment with different styles and find what looks best on you. Softer colors with light, cute patterns (larger prints tend to look better on bigger girls... and just look better in general, anyway) or darker colors will work best. Dark colors are flattering and add a hint of mystery. Whatever you do, have fun with it! Nothing will make you come off as fun and flirty like having the right attitude. Be confident in yourself and it gives you a special kind of allure that you can't get at the mall.

Answer 4

dress your body correctly and make an effort to look amazing !

good luck!

Answer 5

come to sacramento dudes here love biiigggg chicks especially the black dudes i dont like em but youll get hit on here no matter what you have on....

Answer 6

Ugh it disgusts me how shallow men or shall I say boys are. I think to look cute and flirty experiment with make up a bit (that's if you don't already). I think big eye lashes,soft colored eyeshadow, rosey cheeks, and lip gloss is flirty.

Also torrid has super cute clothes so try maybe a flowy dress or a cute tunic with straight jeans and some flats.

People need to be more open minded and realize that everyone is different and size should not be a problem. Just because a girl might be alittle more plump than another doesn't take away from how amazing they could be.

Hope you find something cute to wear and a great guy =).

Answer 7

i had an answer in mind that said "lots of cleavage" until i read the not having to bare my b*****s much. sorry but that's it. that's like a short girl asking "how can i be taller without having to wear high heels?" you can't, sorry biguns.

EDIT:  Ok... so there's nothing about women that you would notice if they were fat?

yes... b*****s. i'm sorry but that's the way guys work.

As in, would a thin girl in jeans and a t-shirt [assuming that was dull] be as attractive as her twin wearing a full length flowing gown with flowers in her hair and gems at her throat?

yes, because we're just picturing them naked.

Answer 8

Im sorry, but this comes from a guy who knows guys.

Depends on how fat you are, this is assuming you're FAT fat, and not just slightly plump.

The last thing a guy wants to see other than a fat girl, is a fat girl who acts seductive or flirty.

Your best bet is to lose weight, or become the fun to be with tomboy that everybody likes.