I'm having a love crisis. any help?

Question

I'm totally in love with this guy at school and he likes hanging around me and he knows he can tell me anything, but he has a girlfriend who is one of my friends but only because of him. I've liked him for a long time but idk if i should tell him or move on or what. any advise would be appreciated.

Answer 1

Just keep being friendly and you probably won't need to say anything about it.  Don't waste your time waiting for him.  high school relationships are usually not a life commitment so he'll be available at some later date.  Just let life happen and it it's meant to be - it will be.  

Answer 2

dont say anything if he has a gf move on and dont make the mistake of ruining your friendship.

Answer 3

There's No Harm In Telling Him  [=

Answer 4

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Answer 5

Don't put all your eggs in one basket - If it works out later, great, but one thing I have learned is NEVER to wait around for someone.  As far as telling him goes, that's up to you.  How do you think he will react? Do you think he'll be angry? Interested? It's a judgement call, but definitely plan on looking at other guys and not getting all bogged down in one.

Answer 6

lol Kenzo.

Babe there's no real answer for this question. You're torn between trying to get with a guy who is already taken, and hurting your other friend or just sticking around and hurting yourself as you watch the two of them do w/e it is they do.

It's a tough one, it really is.

- Hex

Answer 7

I've been in this situation before. It's hard isn't it? I was best friends with this guy and basically everyone knew, and I finally got up the guts an told him, and because of that we are the best-est of friends. Whatever happens, and there are no regrets. This guy was dating my bff and that was hard. But sometimes you just have to go with your gut feeling. Mine told me to tell him. If your is too then go for it. But if not maybe you should keep it to yourself for a little while longer.

Answer 8

IDK this is a tuffy. Umm well I think you shouldn't tell him cuz it might become really awkward. Here ask him "Can I tell you something" if he says sure or whatever say "Promise you wont like freak out or anything?" If he promises then be like "I like you, but I promise it won't get in the way of our friendship or relationship." IDK something around that area of words. Then if he says what he says immediatly jump into a completely different subject just be a quicky and say i like you and then jump on to another subject.

Answer 9

I wouldn't tell. If she is real friend, even if just though him. I wouldn't risk it. He's with her and you don't know how he's react to your feelings.

Answer 10

no if you want to keep your friend

Answer 11

Dont tell him. At least not now because if your friend ever finds out you will lose her. Also if the guy doesnt like you back how you want him to like you then your friendship with him will also change and i dont think h**l trust you like before. He'll think you just wanna go out with him and thats why you let him confide with you.

Good luck! =)