I'm having a problem with the guy I like and my best friend...?

Question

Up until a few months ago, the guy I've liked and my best friend hated each other. My best friend couldn't stand him because of some drama that went on between us and he hurt me and lots of other dumb things happened, so I understood why she didn't like him. But a few months ago, I made them forget the grudge and start being friends. But now he spends more time with her than me! I know I shouldn't be jealous because she's my best friend and wouldn't do anything to hurt me, but I'm just worried about what HE'S gonna do. Was it a mistake to get them to be friends? Please help

Answer 1

It wasn't a mistake getting them to become friends.  If she's really your best friend, then you're right, she's not going to do anything that's going to hurt you.  It's probably just a harmless relationship.

Answer 2

Well, the first thing I would do is ask if she likes him. If she doesn't than she probably wouldn't do anything even if he likes her. Why don't you try hanging out with him and see if he seems to like you back. Don't be jealous. That will just cause more problems between you and her. Remember, friends are more worthy than guys. Anyway, if you find out he doesn't like you or he acts like it and you can just tell, you should just leave it alone a little bit. Guys supposedly like things they can't have, so if nothing seems to come of your relationship, just try acting like you don't like him. Hope this helps!

Answer 3

Its all oky,if shes truly your bestfriend she would never hurt you..im sure but sounds like his starting to like her,instead of doing somthing stupid tht will affect your bestfriend-jst smile and let it go..though if ur bestfriend dosn't noe tht u like him u should probably tell her and ask her if she likes him bak?

For now waite,keep an eye on thm n see what happens..if he asks her out u cnt do anything but forget about it im sorry.