I'm having certain troubles... help please!!!?

Question

oh god, this is a very gross personal question. look, i'm 15. i've never used a tampon or stuck a finger up my hole. i've tried to do both but i get scared and back out. so i'd like to know a few things about this:

1) how can i stick my finger up my hole? i'd like to do that before i try a tampon (i don't have my period right now). where exactly is my hole? i mean, i know where the opening is, but then it seems to close back up like a centimeter in because there's like this soft thing or something. at that point i'm not really sure where to push in.

2) do most vaginas have like a little thing shaped like a thin spaghetti noodle that starts about a centimeter in and ends at the entrance to the "hole"? because i have one, and it kinda freaks me out lol. it makes me think there's something lodged IN my v****a or something...ew!!!

3) is this a common problem or not?

thanks... sorry if i offended you...

Answer 1

lol, okay... the "hole" is the one that is right next to your b******e... you can't really stick anything in the hole that you pee out of, and you'd know if you stuck it up your but... The soft thing, is just part of the inside or your v****a... just keep pushing and it moves... for your second question, honestly, i have no idea what you're talking about.

Third, alot of girls don't know where their v****a is when they're starting to use tampons... it's common.  

Answer 2

1. if you ask me, the best way to go for now is a pad. its easier to use a tampon after you have/had s*x

2.its normal.

3.yes.

Answer 3

2. What are u on about!

a noodle lol