I'm having issues pleasing my wife sexually. whenever she tells me what to do I am no longer aroused, ?

Question

help

Answer 1

is she telling you to do something you dont want to do?

do you still love her?

you neeeed to talk to her!

Answer 2

All you need to do is to sit down and talk just one time. Both of you can talk about what they want in bed. so, when the time comes to fool around you both go into it knowing what each others turn ons and turn offs are

Answer 3

Trying talking things out with her about what pleases her before you go to the bedroom.