I'm having issues with my friends....?

Question

It started in July at my friend Caseys sleep over party. We were lying on the floor and we were asking each other questions. They were questions like "who would be the most likely to become famous?". Since no one was asking questions and it was getting ackward I decided to take hold on the reins and became the questioner. Everytime I asked a question it would always go to one of my five friends (there were six of us) and never me except for the reall rude ones like "Who would be most likely to become a prostitute?" or "a gold digger?" Finally I got fed up and stopped answering questions. They asked me what was wrong and I told them I was just upset because i was gonna have to put my dog down (which was true and shes already gone now). That actually was prolly why i was emotional to begin with. So they said they were sorry then after fifteen minutes i started getting insulted again until my friend lily told them to knock it off and give me a break (thank you lily). But now whenever i hang out with those five ppl its the same situation. They are constantly insulting me. Calling me a blonde and making me feel inferior and disrespected. But its only when its us five all together. Not when im with two of them or four of them. Always with the five. So what can I do to get them to knock it off. Ive tried talking to them A MILLION times but that doesnt work and i really dont wanna lose their friendships. I hung out with them yesterday and that was the last straw! Please help me! thanx

-claire

Answer 1

If you talked to them about it and they still haven't stopped then in my opinion they aren't true friends. I would get rid of them I were you, you don't need them.

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"Me and one of my friends ALWAYS would pick on another one of our friends whenever we were together..........but it's just for laughs!!! We love her to death she is just the most gullable and gets the most emotional so its FUNNY!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

    * 5 minutes ago

Wow, you sound like a great friend! :sarcasm:  

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Answer 2

tell them how you feel

Answer 3

well last year i was friends with this buy who constantly called evryone ho and w***e and finally i ended the relationship. i saw him again at the beginning of the year and we became friends again but i told him not to call me those words because i am not like that at all. and i told him if he does i would end the friendship. so maybe your friends think your joking. becasue the way i see it is if they are good friends and they respect you then they will not make fun after you repeatedly ask them to stop.  

Answer 4

Me and one of my friends ALWAYS would pick on another one of our friends whenever we were together..........but it's just for laughs!!! We love her to death she is just the most gullable and gets the most emotional so its FUNNY!!!!!!!!!!!!!  

Answer 5

omg i have like the same problems but truly if they are you friends they would knock it off but if they keep it up they aren't worth it i know you are probably really close but still don't be near people who make you sad because it isn't worth it  

Answer 6

you really should tell them how you feel and if they don't pay attention and keep insulting you then they really aren't very good Friends but still if there messing with you then mess with them and if they don't get the point then they really aren't good Friends and you shouldn't be their Friends no matter how much you want to be sorry about your dog bye the way and sorry about your Friends

Answer 7

it is obvious to me that someone in that group of five doesn't like you. it shouldn't be hard to figure out who is the ring leader. who instigates this teasing? who seems to be enjoying making you feel uncomfortable? when you find out who or whom they are then you need to cut them off. try to avoid hanging out with them. tell them in a stern voice that you don't like it when they treat you this way. make sure they know you are very serious. who ever respects your wishes is a real friend. who ever keeps teasing you is not. you also need to ask yourself why you don't want to lose their friendships. i hope its not because you want to be popular or something stupid like that. it is not worth your self-esteem. i don't know your age but you sound young. let me tell you something. ten years from now i doubt you will care about these girls. so stop thinking about them and start thinking about you and what you deserve in these friendships.  

Answer 8

back away from them for a while but still on the normal like say hi stuff like that act like you don't need them and let them realize its boring without you and they'll come to you. you don't have to take it, don't be afraid to say anything back they're just testing you see how far they can go. let them have a taste of they're own medicine.