I'm having s*x for the first time...?

Question

So I'm having s*x with this friend of mine...I'm a virgin, and he's not

He's been with two girls I know and they say he's good...

do you think I'll enjoy it too, or will my virginity be an impediment?

Answer 1

your virginity will not be an impediment, boys like to **** anything.

and maybe you should wait more, for a special person to appear, but who cares on the end anyway.

today, when you get married, nobody cares if you're a virgin or not

personally, i think there's nobody in the world good enough to loose my virginity with. i think neither deserves it

Answer 2

do it i did it with my friend 3 times when we when i was 14 shed had s*x with me because of my hot abs

Answer 3

im sure you will enjoy it

Answer 4

This isnt a sporting event.

Your really should save this event for someone you truly care about.

Its and expression of love, not just something you DO for lack of anything better going on.

Personally, I'd never want to know where

"it's" been

You need to really think about this decision more in my opinion. You can have a baby !  This is the way they are made.  No protection is is 100% safe. Just give it a thought how your life would be, if something goes wrong.

Yes, it will hurt

Answer 5

Almost all women's first experience is far less pleasant than subsequent ones.  It is indeed due to being virgin - one is entering unknown territory, and if one claims one is not anxious, one is lying about it.  Anxiety can seriously compromise a woman's body's ability to respond.  You may not lubricate adequately, and that can make penetration hurt - a lot.  He may forget, in his eagerness to penetrate a virgin, to be gentle, patient and careful, thereby leaving her feeling like a piece of meat.  A bad first experience can sour a woman permanently on intimacy, which can lead to a lifetime of bitter disappointment.  That's why it's always best to wait until you are very, very sure of this man and his intentions.  If all he wants is to s***w a virgin, that's a pretty shallow and imbecilic man to be giving so precious a gift to.  And once given, you can never reclaim it.  So be d**n sure before you proceed.  You will never be the same person again.

Answer 6

depends on how aroused you get  

Answer 7

It's going to hurt. Don't let anyone tell you it won't! You have to go slow. Don't just dive right in. Try some lube or condoms with good lube. Definitely make sure you have some sort of protection. Birth Control, condoms... something! Good Luck and try to enjoy it.

Answer 8

You probably won't enjoy it much the first time, but it gets better.

Also, those girls probably have nothing to compare him to. So don't get your hopes up!

Answer 9

Wait, how old are you? I'm guessing high school, And your planning on having s*x, does this guy know?

What if you get an STD? He might not even know he has one, and give it to you. What if you get pregnant?

Answer 10

if you guys are that good of friends then no i think you'll enjoy it.

but be aware that things might change between the two of you,i did the same thing with my friend except i wasn't a virgin and now we barely speak because he ended up wanting more out of our relationship than i could give him.

Answer 11

Why the **** are you going to have s*x with a FRIEND of yours for your first time? Save it for someone special, sheesh.

Answer 12

I am 14 but I think my virginity is the best thing I can give my husband. When you give it away to someone who doesn't mean as much then in my opinion you have lost a woman's pride. It really depends on your conscience if you don't see a problem then go for it but if you think it would be a problem then don't do it it's really that simple.  

Answer 13

just a suggestion. finger yourself or something so it isnt unpleasant and painful the first time

Answer 14

s*x is a lot more emotional for a woman. You are giving your body to him.

I didn't really believe that until after I had s*x, but I think you should wait until you meet someone you actually fall in love with. But maybe you will fall in love with him.

You'll see s*x is a big deal.

First time it will hurt, even with foreplay.

Answer 15

You dont think s*x is a big deal?! You have got the wrrooong idea about s*x. s*x is a very powerful thing. And to think its not going to change things is a very naive thing to do. You need to have a reality check, and really think this over.

Answer 16

i honestly dont think you will enjoy it. your first time, unless its with the amazing love of your life is probably not going to be too special. if hes such a good friend of yours, he should not want to take your v-card.

Answer 17

well its good that you love each other..but you won't ever know if you like it till you try it!

Answer 18

Don't worry about virginity . just enjoy .

Answer 19

why not wait until it is some one you love and not just a friend it is a special gift to just give a way. Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? Some day you will find a guy that you love and It is the best gift you can give him. You can only give your virginity once.  

Answer 20

youll regret it  

Answer 21

Don't do it just to get rid of your virginity or to gain experience, you'll regret it for the rest of your life. Wait until you're with someone who really matters to you so it's special.

Answer 22

go ahead!!!!!!!  if you want,

Answer 23

save it for someone special that you actually love. it'll be more special and you wouldnt worry about your virginity being an impediment. this friend of your's will probably do you once and forget about you.

haha s*x isnt a big deal??? it will be when you end up with stds and a baby in your arm!!!!

Answer 24

DONT DO IT

u dont no what ur doing as we can tell.

and u want it to be right

and if ur bf or ur husband someone u love,

just m********e !

Answer 25

I think its a big mistake but you won't listen to anyone tell you that.  So a little bit of advise.  If your hymen is still in tact use something, like a tampon to break it.  it will ease a lot of pain associated with first time.  Insist on a lot of foreplay to get you real aroused.  Make him wear a condom with a spermicide.  Get some lube. KY Silke is recommended by my wife's OB/GYN.  Hope you have fun even though you are making a big mistake.

Answer 26

wow it's girls like you who give the rest of us a bad name with selling yourself short, virginity is an important thing, if he really loved you back, then why are you "just friends", no guy who loved a girl and could be close to her would be just friends.  

Answer 27

you'll wish you waited, and your future husband will too.

Answer 28

if his is as big as mine

Answer 29

it might hurt... use lots of lube and you will be fine..

and a condom of course

Answer 30

well if he is the right guy to lose ur virginity then so be it.If not then say not today i dont fell so strong tonight.WELL if ur young well fantasies come true SO HAVE FUN!!!!

Answer 31

If you want to have s*x with someone for the first time, why not wait until it is with someone special??  No, I am not telling you to wait until marriage, but s*x is something that is best when you are in a relationship.  From the sound of it the girls you spoken with are friends of yours, more or less anyway.  Are you having s*x out of pure curiosity?  If so, you may need to rethink your decision.

If you do decide to go through with it, you may or you may not enjoy it.  My first time hurt like h**l, and it didn't get any better until the fifth or sixth time I had s*x.  The most important thing to do is communicate with your friend.  Make sure he knows what you want and any concerns you may have.  Also make sure he realizes if you  suddenly change your mind during intercourse or foreplay (and it does happen that way sometimes) that he STOP immediately and not give you any grief for it.  Also, have him wear a condom.  With s*x comes responsibility and if you are going to have s*x, you'll have to be responsible.  And with that responsibility comes communication and protection.