I'm having some Trouble with friends?

Question

Recently a Friend told me that she had lied to me about how far she had gotten with her boyfriend, when I know she hadn't. She also tries to embarress me in public, like coming up to me when Im with other friends and trying to tell them secrets that I told her and asked her not to repeat. She also seems like she can't be bothered with me anymore, and she is ditching me for her boyfriend.

If we are going to meet up, I always have to make the effort and arrangement, and atm shes really getting me down.

Is there anything you think I should do?

cheers x*x

Answer 1

Sweetie that is not a friend that is a B*Ch that you should remove your self from find other friend when she ready to be a true friend she'll come back.... and please don't stop being her friend just walk away from her remove your self we all have those moments and it takes a real friend to be there after her " I'm better than you stage"

Answer 2

She feels totally insecure, that's why she isn't being a good friend. If she is ditching you to be with he boyfriend, then she is no friend at all, break off the friendship for your own good.  

Answer 3

Same with my friend. She just wants attention. I also think she's trying to make you jealous. Like with all the things she's done with her boyfriend. Don't listen to all of that. Trying to impress others with showing off never helps. Also never tell her a secret again, cause you'll know what will happen. In her mind it's like this ; ''Oh she's not happy for me and doesn't care that my relationship with my boyfriend has improved but let's see if she'll care if I talk behind her back.'' Kind of thing. And then you do care when she does talk behind your back. See what I'm trying to say? Maybe the reason why she is acting like that is because she's upset that you aren't happy for her, (even though you aren't but you can pretend to though) and maybe she's thinking that you don't care, but you do, I think.

I think she just wants you to be happy for her, but in a showing off type of way.

UGH .. Show offs ... lol

Good luck. (Just tell her to back off a bit ok?)