I'm having trouble someone help please!?

Question

well i went out with this guy and we was cool you no everything was going right and he said oh i love u and i would never break your heart like the other dudes did and other bull like that so like we have benn going out for like a month and he just stoped talking to me i said weel i love u and he told me he didnt love me and this all happpened after i asked him about some girl named ralina does it sound like i did anythinng wrong to u so now he doesnt want to talk to me and he hurt me really bad this is the reason why i want to stay a L*****n.

so whay should i do i need the right ideas and not negs

Answer 1

move on  people who play games will only play em forever there is always some one else out there better for ^ ^  

Answer 2

Just blow him off he doen't deserve to be with you

Answer 3

unless you do, don't sacrifice being something/someone who is not YOU if you don't feel like you are a L*****n... he is not the only male in this world.... i have been there and I totally recovered and I am now glad that he broke my heart because I found someone who is a way way better than him... be who you are and don't think the world is ending... good luck!

Answer 4

well idk but he said i love you.. too soon im sorry but a month i just think its too soon my opinion and alot of guys are jerks you prob be better of lesb yet alot of girls are female dogs but thats what the world is so what ya gonna do.. i think hes just another jerk and u could do better.. good luck

Answer 5

get on with it dont waste your precious time wth him find anthe guy to date have another go they arent all like him and if you feel you want a girl then go that way but you cant be a L*****n if you like guys also so i think that  makes you bi-sexual.  You are the only one that can decide .  Good luck from Sandy.

Answer 6

it's only been a month.  Do you really expect him to say ILU and mean it?  He probably did say it as a nice gesture but it sounds obvious that he doesn't mean it.  Do you love him or were you just saying bull too?

Dump him then.  

Answer 7

What should you do??? Figure out what/who you are, #1. Maybe then things won't be so confusing! Is it really something you can so easily bounce around with...between being a L*****n, or straight? It seems to me, you're either one or the other... but, what do I know? I think if you could figure that much out, you'd have a lot less grief!

Answer 8

Sometimes guys just take off after they get you in bed.  Not necessarily because it was bad, but because he always wants someone new.  There are good guys and bad guys, relationships that work out and ones that don't.  I don't know anything about the L*****n scene.  You'll have to decide for yourself who you want to date.  

Answer 9

Tell him he's an idiot!!! And find a guy who won't bullshit you

Answer 10

i think girls cause just as much drama but follow your heart (which sounds really cheesy). i dont know much about that so i cant help you there but i think if you find the right guy its worth it.

Answer 11

i had seriously the same EXACT problem a few months ago!

except it was an ex girlfriend i never knew about..

anyways...

you didnt do anythign wrong.. there is NO problem with a girlfriend wondering about her boyfriends relationships..

dont let his actions break you... if he really loved you he wouldnt have even said that i felt the same about wanting to be L*****n.. but dont let one little person change you stay the way you want and enjoy the people life brings.. :)

what i did was stop talking to my ( now ex boyfriend) its your choice whether you want to talk to him or ignore him completely now.. :)

Answer 12

Don't worry whether you did anything wrong. And even if you did, if he didn't confront you and try to fix the problem to stay with you then he doesn't love you.

I'm sorry to say it but that's the hard truth. You will find someone else to love you who will really love you. Don't worry about it, he isn't worth the worry.  

Answer 13

Well there has to be more to the story than that I mean he did all this after you asked him about some girl.  Did you and the girl maybe do some things that might've gotten him upset to stop talking to you?  I mean I've had my share of bad guys that have broke my heart but that isn't the whole reason for me liking girls.  That stroy seems fishy though I don't think that's all of it.

Answer 14

I would just tell you that not all guys are like that.  You sound young and remember that guys mature slower than females do.  When you get  into a relationship, you really do not know someone well enough to say love you and really mean it.  I suggest that you become friends first for a while before ever dating and then before becoming a couple.

You did nothing wrong.  He wasn't being honest with you.  A real man would be more respectful and tell you he was interested in someone else instead of ignoring you and hoping you will figure it out.  

I believe in full open and honest communication in every relationship.  Don't judge men/women relationships based on those young quick relationships.  Get to know them slowly first.  

I was just friends with my now boyfriend for about 2 years before we both decided to date.  Things will happen in the right time frame, have faith.

Answer 15

well FIRST OF ALL: why the h**l did you tell him you loved him after one month...

SECOND: yeah duh it's because you were becoming too attached. you seemed like you cared a lot since you were asking about another girl so he thought it was a waste of time. probably another pig just wanting to ****.

Answer 16

I hate to break it to you, but love doesn't operate like that. Lust does.

Answer 17

WAIT YOU ARE A L*****n MAYBE HE FOUND THAT OUT HA HA JK MAYBE HE THINKS YOU DONT TRUST HIM BECAUSE U THOUGHT HE WAS CHEATING ON YA WITH THAT GIRL SO MAYBE THATS WHY HES MAD JUST TELL HIM "IM SORRY I SHOULDVE TRUSTED YOU I KNOW YOU LOVE ME AND WOULD NEVER CHEAT ON ME RIGHT?"SO SAY THAT AND HE WILL PROB COME BACK.

Answer 18

stay a L*****n.

boys are just one huge headache and heartache after another.

Answer 19

being a L*****n doesn't solve the problem because women hurt you and leave you and break your heart too.l  he just didn't want you.

Answer 20

aweee; im sorry i had the same thing happened to me. i was goin out with this boy and he just stopped talking to me, we never broke up but he just stopped talking so i was like WTF w.e. so i went out with thus other boy. then he saw me with the other guy and was like "why the ***** are you cheating on me"...so maybe you should just move on. if you wanta be stay being a L*****n then go right ahead. dont let him stop you, maybe hes just not the one. good luck(: hope this helps.

Answer 21

you shouldn't let what one guy does to you ruin how you look at other guys...they are all not the same.....but in the end what you decide to do is your choice but don't let one fool mess it up for you possibly having a good relationship with a guy....

Answer 22

well first of all that is the reason you are not a lessie yepif you were one you'd never gone to girls that is sad because most of them that are have that born into them you choose and pick and that is sorta dumb. you sure aren't moving on why? it takes time and sometimes a few years to get moving and well this guy is not for you and you know this now so why be upset pull yourself up and dust yourself off and find someone else that is how you do it its learning and learning to cope and when you fidn the right guy there will be no breaking up. take care.

Answer 23

Try talking with him and asking why he doesnt like you, if it i because how you act, there is no point to go out with him, find someone new, and im not try to be all simple, but its life, loose a friend, gain another.