I'm having trouble with my long distance relationship?

Question

My mom and I moved away to another city and I had a boyfriend back home but we are trying to make it work. I've been calling him every night and talking to him but since school has started he usually doesn't answer and when he does he's always with this other girl who was our friend but she never hung out with him without me around before though. One of my old friends says there are rumors going around that they are dating but I'm not sure though. When I asked him about it he said they weren't but why is she always around if they aren't? I love him and he's the first and only guy I've ever been with and we have plans that include going off to the same college and getting married after graduation but now he hardly talks to me. What should I do?

Answer 1

Long distance relationship rarely ever works out! It only works if BOTH people show the same willingness and commitment to each other!

It sound like you are the one that always has to initiate contact with him! Thus he is not as committed to the realtionship as you are. Maybe you should let him go now, and sometime in the future you can try this again, but it looks to me, the longer you stay in this relationship the more heartache you will feel, as your insecurities and paranoia will consume you

Answer 2

Well, maybe get a job and start making money and taking Vacations down there so you can spend more time with him and then start texting him more and calling him more. The main thing, is to trust your boyfriend always! And if he dumps you for that other girl he's not worth it at all!

Hope this helps!

Answer 3

Usually long distance relationships don't work out and if your not really sure if he's cheating on you or not i think you should just end it.  

Answer 4

I dont want to rain on your parade, but it is SOOOO rare for long distance relationships to work. Like, really rare. My oppinion is that he's moved on. Some guys need a girl right beside him and can't deal with only "talking". Love is a big thing in this, i think, but you should let go for his sake and yours. You wont have to worry if he's cheating and you can move on, looking for another hottie that will appreciate every second he's with you. and the guy you love now won't have to worry about hurting you or lying to you. So i say end it and keep looking. Sorry if it aint the answer you're looking for! Good luck