I can't believe I'm typing this. I am a 39 year old woman going through a huge mid-life crisis that is reserved for older men. I am not attracted physically to the man I have lived with for the last 12 years (not married), and haven't been for a long time, and I feel he knows it subconsciously, but he's so emotionally dependent on me that he ignores it, and tries to pretend everything is okay. I had a drunken smooching session with my boss's son whom I have worked with for 17 years and he's 5 years younger than me. Now we are texting eachother flirt messages and I have seen him once since then (thank goodness he lives out of town), but I just KNOW that I am not going to be able to hold out because I am so thrilled at the excitement of it. Someone please try to talk some sense into me because I just can't wait to see him again. I feel so pathetic that I can't control myself, because I know I'll get caught, and that it's wrong, etc., but I can't stop myself from jumping in front of the oncoming train.
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