I'm in a Strange situation. I can't undertand him. I don't know what the best thing to do is?

Question

To make a long story short

-I knew this guy before, but all of a sudden he is planning to meet up with me all the time. I went to his place around 6 times in 2 weeks. In these 2 weeks I meet his parents & sister, he cooks for me, he walks me home, he holds my hand in public & wants me to meet his friends.

-He said he was too young to be in a relationship, he has too much energy. BUT he asks me out soon after.

-We go on 1 official date & then I don't really hear from him much so I asked what was wrong-he said he can't commit untill he finishes uni in the summer. He said sorry for messing with my emotions, it's his fault..he ne ver said he didn't like me..infact he said he really likes me.

So I'm confused. Around xmas I asked him how he was and he said hows ur love life? I missed hanging out. W e should meet. A while passed & I go on msn for the 1st time in ages. He says lets meet up soon.

2 days later he texts asking to meet up but I couldn't & he said 'ok woteva x.'

Answer 1

Sounds to me like he is a player.  Stay away from him.  All of a sudden he is acting like he wants to hang out with you because it suits him.  What a jerk.

Answer 2

be frank and ask him. that's the best way. ^_^

Answer 3

Stay away from him. He's not concerned with you or your feelings. He sounds very self centered and is using you to suit his own needs.  You're worth far more than that!

Answer 4

He is a not constant guy, immature and doesnt know what he wants for you and life, i think, its better not trust him! can make u feel good then too bad, better see him as as distant friend

Ps. Actually, i know someone like that! better dont get involve!!!!

Answer 5

Sounds like he doesn't have a clue what he wants or he likes playing around with your emotions.

I wouldn't waste my time with him.

Answer 6

don't take it seriously if you're looking for a relationship - doesn't sound like it can become one at this point. however, definitely hang out with him if that's fun!