I'm in big trouble.I met a guy on the internet who i thought was my age, i done stuff on cam.....?

Question

He videoed, and is now backmailing me into doing more on cam or he'll send to a p**n site.

He has LOADS of vieos of other girls and plays their videos on cam to lure other girl in.

What do i do?

Answer 1

your best bet is to tell the police.

but just so you know. BOTH of you will be charged with child p**n.

its crazy, but they do that now. You and the old dude will be charged. I'm not sure if he will be charged more but, yeah.

sucks for you! don't do it again!

Answer 2

okay well honestly what I would do is be honest with your parents. most likely they will be mad at you, but they'll be even more mad at the pervert that is doing this to you. If your a minor which you are, you could tell the police and this man could get arrested for possesion of child por*ography. The first ammendment dosent protect the possesion or distirbution of Child por*ography against children. you could in fact have a serious case against this man. you could charge him on counts of

- possesion of child por*ography

- blackmail

you seriously need to tell someone about this. You could be saving so many other girls, and putting a dangerous guy behind bars.  

Answer 3

Call the police and tell your parents.

If you're under 18, tell the police he has kiddie p**n.

Answer 4

Well, if you are under 18 you can press charges. If you are a legal adult I guess this is just a life lesson. Never do anything on webcam you don't want the whole world to see.

Think about it. If you do more on webcam, he will have more footage. Not the best idea.

Answer 5

black mail him back and tell him if he does you'll call the cops cause technically thats kiddie p**n

Answer 6

Press charges. The police can track him down. Your parents will be mad at you. No doubt. But they'll still love you no matter what. You'll just have to earn back their trust after a while. But they'll respect your decision that you told them...

Answer 7

Two words for you here: CHILD p**n!

Seriously, call the cops. He's gonna be in serious, serious, SERIOUS. trouble when they find out, and he'll probably get his *** kicked in prison too. And how do you know he's not playing YOUR video to lure those 'other girls' in, or he hasn't uploaded it to a p**n site already, or he's not planning on making a p**n site? He's blackmailing you (which is illegal) into doing something else illegal, so why would he not lie to you as well? And, if your parents find out, they'll probably be more relieved that he didn't stalk you down and kill you, or angry at him for conning you into it, than upset at you for doing it.

If you really, really, really, don't want to turn a child predator in to the police, then next time you talk to him, don't turn the cam on, tell him you're busy then, but you'll record something and send it to him when you have time. Then, don't log in for a bit. Find a computer-savvy friend, and have them procure the nastiest virus they can find, and disguise it as a video. If they ask what it's for, tell them the story, or say it happened to 'someone you know' and they need the virus. Re-name the virus video to something like 'kellycam1' and send it to the guy who blackmailed you. He opens it, and his computer is corrupted, and the original video of you is gone. Block him, change your online handles, and you'll never have to deal with it again, unless you wind up feeling guilty about not turning him in later in your life. Meh. Just go to the police and save yourself all this trouble. I'm sure they'll destroy the video in the end.

Answer 8

If he is on yahoo..Then block him....and report him for sexual harassment....and then tell the police and they could track him and his compute..and he can go to jail for a looong time....but it was also mistake to talk to a person you dont know in real life...its better if you just tell the police..and then start ignoring the person..I hope i helped........

Answer 9

You made a VERY stupid decision.

Answer 10

CALL THE POLICE NOW! What hes doing is not only wrong but very illegal and can get in serious trouble for it. Don't risk putting your private life on the internet for millions to see. Take care of this  now and report this scumbag. Tell him that you are reporting him, I guarantee he'll cave in and apologize. Good luck

Answer 11

that is why u dont do tht on the internet

there are alot of nasty freaks in the world

and most of them are on chat

so now tht u hav learned ur listen tell the police

Answer 12

I think you could give the authorities a tip about a guy involved with pornography of minors.

Do you know his email address?

His address? Name?

Write it all down.

But there is that chance authorities will approach you, depends if its that blurry, and if they can recognize you..then they'd tell your folks.

Your best bet is:

Alert the authorities by giving them a tip. Writing it down and mailing it without a return address.

You aren't the only one he's hurting, think about it.

You can stand up for those other girls, and stop this guy.

I'm not going to tell you your stupid. Since your 15, you have all those crazy hormones. But ALERT THE COPS.

1.Write down ALL the information you can think of:

What he looks like, his email address, if you know his address,  if you know his name, or the name he gave you.

2.Put it in an envelope.

3.Put on the stamps.

4.Put it the mailbox at the post office, or in the police office's mailbox.

i'm sorry your a victim. =[ i wish the best for you.

Answer 13

Tell the police. If he has videos of minors he will get in biiiiig trouble.

Answer 14

Find a way to anonymously report it to the police. That is child pornography and he will go to jail if he gets caught.

Edit:If you can't report him anonymously then you're gonna have to report him and your parents will probably know. Sorry, but I'm sure your parents would rather have you report him than just keep it a secret from them.

Answer 15

ok well if he is also talking to u on aim an being perverted save it an call the police then curse him out an never talk to him again=)

Answer 16

you could print screen or chatlog is threats and send them to report agents and remain enonimouse!

what ever he says couldent be the truth since he was lieing about his age. . .

next time you talk to him on instantMessage M.S.N just

say that your computer is being dody or your batterys running out and you cant fiindd the charger that way if you block him he will think your batterys ran out so he wont suspeckt a thing if you dont ever unblock him again!!

Hopee i helped xx

Answer 17

Yes it was stupid, but you can fix it by fessing up and calling the cops.  They will track his IP address.

Answer 18

Could have, would have....you did.  You are going to have to tell your parents and police.  This guy is a predator and doing what he asked would just make things worse for you.  PLEASE contact those authorities meant to protect you.  This could prevent others from having to go through the same thing.    

Answer 19

report him to the authorities.

Answer 20

wow, i'm really not sure but you need to stop doing that kind of stuff on cam. you will regret it. and obviously it has already gotten you into trouble. just stop now.

Answer 21

First of all, go to your parents.

You might be way embarrassed, but it will only get worse.

Then contact the police. Get this b*****d in Jail.

You're not the only one though. This happens to many children.

Just, be wise and tell someone before something worse happens.

Answer 22

I dont get why with all the men in this world woman are sitting home posing nude for someone they have never met nor do you know what they look like.

My advice you is stay off those d**n chat rooms.  

Answer 23

if you are under 18 you can press charges but it was a bit of a silly thing to wasn't it  

Answer 24

You NEED to tell your parents. They are going to be disappointed and angry but they NEED to know. Listen millions of girls get abducted or raped or put on p**n websites because they do what u did. I hope that u didnt give him personal informatiion like lastname, age, school, job, family, locations, places you like to hang out,times of the day when you are homealone, etc. You need to close your account/quit emailing whatever way you are in contact with him get rid of NOW!!If you get sent to a p**n site so what ... dont do anymore. This guy is evil and perverted, you don't have to give in to him, or make him manupulate you. Please tell your parents, they need to know. Tell them everything. And don't be knaive next time you are on the internet cuz, it is a dangerous place. Please tell them, you need help!!  

Answer 25

report him to the police they will have a way of trapping him, and stop this happening to others.

Answer 26

Call the police!!

Answer 27

Police.

They will track his IP number and that will bring them right to his house. Go to them before he does this. He doesn't care whether you do more or not. That video will be on the internet regardless. He's just trying to get more videos out of you.

If you have any logged convo's with him, print them and take them to the police. They will need your computer so if you have a laptop, take it with you.

Please hun, just go to the police with this. It is a very serious issue.

Answer 28

so your "like christian" then i guess i would hope you know the basics of the bible and talk to god everyone in awhile and probably would ask him for forgiveness for what you did.

but yea seirously just ignore it,if its so blurry  no one can tell its you

Answer 29

GO TO YOUR LOCAL POLICE STATION ASAP AND ASK TO TALK TO A FEMALE POLICE OFFICER. SHE WILL HELP YOU.

Answer 30

Call the police.  They know what to do.  Once you call them and they take action, he will never threaten you again.  He's going to face the boys in the gray-bar hotel.

Answer 31

this is illegal. first, tell your parents. do this by writing it down in an empty journal and leaving it in a place they'll look very soon (like a sock drawer or on top of their dresser) if you don't want to do it in person. then, have them call the cops because its kiddie p**n and very illegal. any information you have about him including first name, email, and instant message is all helpful. include that in your explanation to your parents. what you did wasn't very smart, but I'm not going to call you stupid because this guy is a professional @ luring girls like you in.

good luck,

Miley