I'm in love with....!!! help?

Question

Okay...im in love with a much older man (i'm 18) he's my college professor. Hes so amazing! hes smart and sophisticated, in class he would always look at me often, make sure that i understand well always spoke to me out of class, always smiles, hes sweet etc. But he always remained professional and has never said did/anything werid

but my friends analyzed him and said that he may find me a attractive.

i know its wrong...but i just cant get over him. I think about him all the time! its crazy!

i always found that i connect with older men better than younger...becuz im pretty mature for my age (i've been told lol)

Anyways i like him so much, its not even funny! i dont know what to do

or how to stop thinking about him

please help! what should i do?

ExTRA NOTES: i forgot to add details when i asked this!

hes about 40

and yes he is single he undirectly told the class

he also said that he liked thin tall girls, and thats what i'am...

Thanks again

Answer 1

Some people say that age is just a number and for some people that is true... but generally speaking age does matter. The amount of life experience he has compared to you could be an issue. It would be unfair for you to have to fast forward your life and miss out on the early 20s. I bet you he experienced all that, going thru all those stages is what makes 40 year olds so much more mature because they have been there and done that. You owe it to yourself to have fun and be with people your age, that are going through the same things. But on the flip side if you have feelings for this guy that you just cannot let go of maybe after your class with him is over or better yet when you graduate from college try to get to know him. Maybe ask him for his number and stay in contact. If there is really something there then it will happen.

I hope that helps a little.