I'm in serious need of help? please help me out!?

Question

ok so my big problem is me... it seems like every girl i start to have a relationship dies right after we get physical... once i get physical w/ her i get sick and tired of her i know its a horrible way to put it but that's how i feel after wards like i cant bare to look at her, talk to her, or even think about her cuz she just discusses me ive lost plenty of good girls because of this and yeah i feel bad... i think karma has got me by her grip because now there is this girl who has my complete attention ive taken her out to dinners, bowling, fair, etc. and i dint know why but i haven't thought about getting physical w/ her at least not yet.. like i have so much respect for her lets say she knows how to handle her self... now I'm not asking for help on how to score w/ this girl because she is no game to me... like i said i respect her and if things happen between us later on then that's when i worry... i ddon'twant to treat this girl like the rest... i know i would hate myself for a long period of time...so is there any help for me??

Answer 1

It sounds like you're seeing women as sexual conquests, & in that case, respect is the furthest thing from your mind. Try developing a relationship 1st. This latest woman in your life may not be as "easy" as the others, & you may see something in that personality that you can't help but respect. I grew up w/ 2 sisters, I was around my mother more than my father, & now I have a daughter & grand-daughter. I live by the motto that every woman is somebody's little girl. ~:D>

Answer 2

When I first read your question, it sounded like they actually die after being physical with you.  Watch your wording, lol.

I suspect the reason this happens is because you never really cared for the girl.  When you meet the right one, you're not going to get rid of her afterward; you're going to savor every moment.  Maybe this girl will help you realize that.  When you rush into something and don't take the time to really get to know someone, you find that maybe you never really liked them in that way at all.  Take time before getting physical.  It's not a race.  Enjoy her company and when it's time to take it to the next level, make sure your feelings for her are really strong first.