I'm insanely jealous and it's ruining my life.?

Question

Ok so i've been with my boyfriend for 6 months and we went out for a month before that but broke up..right after we broke up after one month he was being an *** and went on telling me how hot he thought so & so was and he asked me questions like which one will put out?

so anyway he doesn't talk to his ex girlfriends or anything now. he doesn't even talk to any girls. i made him stop and i told him how much i appreciated him not talking to any girls but me. and he explains to me all the time that he loves me and i'm the only one he would ever like and no one is more attractive than me and so on. but the first month we were together i wasnt all that pretty. ive changed a lot. but i cry everyday because im worried of what could happen. he was riding in a car with some girl to get home because he had no choice but i made him walk and he did it. anyway i can't go on with being this jealous & talking to him about it doesnt help. i don't trust him but i know i should. i get jealous of him being around his guy friends even..

will me being jealous ever change and any plans to make me learn to trust?

Answer 1

get over it.  geez.  move on.  don't date anyone until you can pick your self esteem off the ground.

Answer 2

You need a hobby.  Find something to do like volunteering or learn to play an instrument, crochet,  ball room dance, learn to eat fire, whatever.  Find ways to make your own life more fulfilling then you won't be so obsessed with your boyfriends every move.

Answer 3

You need to learn to trust. Let go a bit. I wouldn't want to be with anyone that made me feel like I couldn't be trusted. If you don't, you could very well end up lonely.

You need some self esteem.