I'm jealous of my older sister;?

Question

I am. She is thin, with the pear shapd body. She is pretty, an everyon likes hers. She isnt smart smart, but does pretty ok. She makes friends pretty easy, always gets compliments on how pretty or thin she is. Onfacebook, she signsin and has 11 new friend requests, and two some people she doesnt even know. One of the request was a friend of mine who didnt even accept my request yet. ;/ I'm just the smart one. I ask people one word to describe me. they go smart. im like nothing else? "uhhhh. -long pause- trustworthy???" someone did that! im always getting sympathy compliments. I'm not thin like my sister, not as tal or near pretty. im 1-2 inches off her height, and the rounder or atheltic type legs, and a curvy upper body (not fat since curvy means fat im guessing) No one sends me friend requests, i dont get as much compliments as her, and im "too smart" i dont want to be known as smart anymore :/ i want to make friends easily like her, and stuff..but im just in her shadow.

Answer 1

Quit comparing yourself to her. What do you like about yourself? What could you do to improve what you don't like. If you don't want to be known as the smart one then don't act smart. This does not mean act dumb. Just don't brag about grades and act like a miss know-it-all. Learn to like who you are and be comfortable with yourself. Make friends with people who you have things in common with. If you like sports then find someone to play with or go to a game with you. If you like books then start a book club. If you like animals then volunteer at a shelter. Just be yourself.  

Answer 2

ill be ur friend on facebook hehe  

Answer 3

its not what its cracked up to be, being like your sister. my sister's the same way, and all she thinks about is people's opinions of her. i bet your sister does the same thing, you just dont realize it. in the long run, you'll be better off.

ps i bet she hates her hips, since you say she's pear shaped.

Answer 4

well step outta your shell and quite dwelling on her she's your sister you should be happy for her , dont be jealous, just try and do your own thing and find a ways to be more friendly and out going, hey why dont you talk w/ your sister and ask for beauty tips and stuff and hang out w/ her sometime maybe youll learn somthing. Putting yourself down will only make things worse for yourself..

Answer 5

The best thing is to stop comparing yourself to your sister and live your own life, you'll be happier.