I'm married, does it make it worse to have affairs with other married women, or just as bad with single women?

Question

I worry so about crossing the line into "evil" territory. I can handle being a dirtbag, but I'm trying to stay pure in the eyes of the man upstairs. Half of my mistresses are married, but I could dump them and find single ones if need by.

Answer 1

having an affair is wrong no matter if the woman is married or single...

why not just get a divorce and you can sleep with whoever you want...

Answer 2

Both are pretty much crossing the line, as far as Christianity goes.  I'm not Christian, but still think adultry is wrong.  In practical terms, having an affair with a married woman means you're not only breaking your own vows, but are aiding and abetting someone else breaking theres.  Therefore, having an affair with a married woman would be worse than with a single woman, in my view.  Again, however, if you're going to cheat, why stay married in the first place?

Answer 3

You're joking right? Just by asking this question I think you already know you are evil.

Answer 4

well since you already have mistesses you are not pure in the eyes of god.

Answer 5

Hi Frank!!!!!!!!!  

Answer 6

ha ha LOL... forget god you'll be dead by the time you know whether it's all true or not...may as well have fun... i'd go for other married ...share the guilt if you have any...enjoy  

Answer 7

Your new name sounds like an STD.  

Answer 8

Holy cow, and other people think they have real problems.  Jesus H. Christ I think not.  To be in your shoes would be as bad as having to walk the plank on Blackbeards' boat.  While my only suggestion I suppose would be to ask your wife if she does other married men or does she prefer to be unfaithful with only single men.  Whatever she says she does then do just the same as you haven't caught her yet so hopefully she won't find out about your flings either.  Best of luck man!!!

Answer 9

Ask your wife and see what she thinks.

Answer 10

Yeah, because cheating on your wife with another married person is just wrong.... At least you know you are a dirtbag...

Last I checked.. the 'man upstairs' wrote a commandment.. it's:

THOU SHALT NOT COMMIT ADULTERY... in case you need further explanation:

1. Do not cheat on your spouse.

2. Do not be with someone who has a spouse.

Answer 11

Listen to this because I will never write this on yahoo again.

A woman so distraught when she walked in and caught her husband with a black woman in her bed grabbed a gun and shot that woman cold blood several times and then killed her husband and shot her two children as well.

I'm going to repeat what I just said and I hate typing this c**p, but it's the God's honest truth. This murder occurred in 1983 at Holly Hills Apartments. The husband was a soldier and the wife was Korean.

She came home and caught her husband in their bed having s*x with a black woman and the kids were in their rooms they were four and five years of age.

She grabbed a 357 Magnum Gun and shot that woman cold blood point blank range and then shot her husband three times and loaded the gun back up with more shells and shot him more times once in the head. Then she reloaded the gun and went into the kids room and shot the children.

When Police arrived from the gun shots they found this Korean woman inside crying and holding her dead children in her arms.  After a 12 hour standoff she was hungry and swat team offered her something to eat which put her to sleep enough for them to rush in and grab her. She pleaded insanity with her court appointed attorney and was committed to a Mental Hospital for treatment.

All because of an affair...two children, her husband and one African American Woman all dead for nothing. All she had to do was divorce him and the children were innocent.

I hate to see anybody have an affair if your married.DON'T DO IT

Answer 12

ur cool

Answer 13

Adultery is adultery, single or married.

God does not give us more than we are able to bear. Even though at the time it feels like temptation feels so difficult to bear.

When you are tempted....pray.

Committing adultery starts in the heart/mind. Prayer is strong. Just try it. You can do it.

All the best and blessings,

K

Answer 14

If you call yourself a "swinger" then its ok

:)

Answer 15

I feel so bad for your wife.  Why did you even get married?  If you want to sleep around, get a divorce! All affairs are bad.  The "man upstairs" probably views you as being a selfish jerk who uses people.  I don't think there is any home for you to redeem yourself.  Quit being a pig to your wife and to these other women! Ughhh! You disgust me!

Answer 16

You don't even know what a woman or a wife is.   All you know is how to deal with some s**t.  Wow what a life you must have "dirtbag".

Answer 17

I think you are much better sticking with the married ones because the chances of you getting caught with them is decreased. They, like yourself, have much to lose if you are caught together so they will be much more discreet.

Do some research online and get some affair tips so that you don't get caught regardless of which way you go.

Answer 18

It doesn't matter if you or the women you are cheating with are married or just in a relationship, cheating is cheating. There is no justification to what you are doing.... Oh and trust me, you have already done enough damage for the man upstairs to see!

Answer 19

I think as long as you stick to MY wife and your single mistresses...you should be fine.

Edit:  hahaha.  i liked that.  that was funny.

Edit again:  Heather is right, your name does sound like an STD.  I think you should go by Franco de la Bono.

Answer 20

Let us know how this works out.

I mean really, this is a question which has puzzled me for a long time.

It is nice to know that some guys are able to exhibit such philosophical conscience.

Answer 21

GOD IS BIG!

Answer 22

Do you have a s*x addiction?  How and in what Bible makes it okay for you to s***w other married women?  You are an insensitive jerk to say the least

Answer 23

According to "the man upstairs" she has the right to divorce you. Adultery is the only grounds which releases someone from the bonds of marriage from a person like you. You have already soiled your reputation, do your wife a favor and leave.

Answer 24

Frank - you changed your id - good to hear from you again - how is Moo Moo?  

Answer 25

Oh sh**it it's that idiot again!!  Who lives in his fantasy WORLD!!

I am sure you Don't even have a WIFE!!

Answer 26

Do you really think you are looking 'pure' in the eyes of God because you sleep with 'married' women instead of a single woman?  If you are concerned with the way you look to God, you will know that he doesn't condone any kind of affair or s*x outside of marriage period.  I'm not going to give you a sermon because you didn't ask for one, but I really think that if you are at all concerned with how God would view your circumstance you will take a look in the good word, the bible, and read about adultery and fornication.  When you marry someone, you two have become one.  Let no man put asunder.  When it says 'man' it means a being period.  Your wife should be all you need in your life.  If you weren't ready to settle down and be with just her, you should have stayed single.  What is wrong with the world today?  No one have any morals.  Today marriage means nothing.  The world is ending.

Answer 27

Don't forget to bring a towel

Answer 28

I guess the answer can't really be determined until you specify if they're male or female.  the big man upstairs doesn't like homos.

Answer 29

Just as bad.... And yes you are evil in the eyes of god and a dirtbag to everyone else

Answer 30

Your not to scared of the man upstairs or you wouldn't be cheating at all! There is no excuse for being a cheater !

Answer 31

LMFAO!