I'm married and have totally lost interest in s*x?

Question

My marriage has ruined me, is there any chance I can pull out of this or am I doomed for life?

Never, ever in my life have I ever dreamed that one day I would find myself not wanting s*x anymore because I'm in a bad marriage. She not only ruined me she has shut me down and I'm scared to death about staying in this marriage any longer. I think I married the Devil himself.

Answer 1

she's obviously acting like the devil because she feels as trapped and unhappy with you as you are with her...... time to call it a day

Answer 2

d**n, the devil? What has she done so bad to make you feel that way? Obviously you're not in this relationship at all. Maybe it's time to cut the cords...

Answer 3

its called DIVORCE--my advice is to get one

Answer 4

I bet your desire returns if you can get away from her.

Answer 5

Well, you've got to decide if you are leaving or staying. If you can't work on it, I'd go. Good luck.

Answer 6

you will find another that will totally knock your socks off...

if you both have nothing left, then its time to say goodbye..

Answer 7

If its that bad you know what to do...

Answer 8

women think they have POWER because they have the blank...and men let them believe that.  as the dominant gender, we should take what we want.

Answer 9

You are reaping bad feeling for him because you haven't loved him.

You reap what you sow. Give him extra love and all the s*x he wants and I bet things will magically turn around.

Answer 10

You sound like you're in pain. :(

Just remember, you married her for a reason (hopefully out of love), so before you do anything drastic, try to find what you two had together again.

Also, I really, really think you should be talking to her about this if you haven't already. Maybe she, herself, is having problems? Showing her mercy can only make you a better human being. And therefore happier.

Marriage is not always easy, so don't give up. :)

Best wishes.

Answer 11

It is not uncommon to lose your s*x drive when you are under a lot of stress or depressed and it sounds like you are both. When you end this bad marriage you will get the drive back.