I'm nervous. Please help.?

Question

kissing my boyfriend of 6 weeks. he's 14 and i'm 13. he's very experienced and i'm not.

i want to know how i can get over my fear.

oh, and kissing tips are appreciated too :]

Answer 1

i had this problem about 3 months ago but my boyfriend was 17 and i was 13 && he had already had s*x && i hadnt even had my first kiss.

kissing.. you mean like hooking up yeah?

like tongue?

whatever you do..

dont think about it

when your tongue is in his mouth when you think about it.. you stuff it up or think "am i a good kisser"

at first.. i was Sh*t lol

it got better as the night went on

dont worryyy it will be alright..

just wait for him to stick the tongue in.  

Answer 2

Okay, so he is only 14, so how experienced can he really be?  Guys like to tell girls things just to boost their self esteem.  Please don't kiss boys at 13.........it can and will lead to other things you probably are not ready for.  Kiss him on the cheek.  This is good enough until you are at least 16 and give him a peck on the lips.  Come back when you are 22 and have completed college.........and we can talk about the tongue.

Answer 3

It'll just happen naturally.

People use to tell me that and i was like are you kidding me? thats no advice. but then it happened for me ;; and it did come naturally.

but honestly, relationship at 15 aren't worth it, i don't want to date 'till i'm like 18. so relationships at 13 aren't worth it at all.  

Answer 4

Fear of what? Are you afraid he wants to have s*x? or of making out? Well if he wants to pressure you into things you don`t want to do you should tell him no and if he is still trying to pressure you and he can`t accept your needs then he isn`t worth your time, if he is patient and is ok with your decision then your in the safe zone and you can stop worrying.

Tips:Always make sure you don`t have crusty chapped lips ha ha and make sure not to pucker your lips just go with the flow (don`t wear to much lip gloss it could get messy lol)

Good Luck!

~kenzie

Answer 5

Tell him. There's nothing wrong with kissing, as long as you leave it at

that, your only thirteen.

Kissing comes naturally, don't worry, just let it happen.

Answer 6

well understand that he was once where you are. don't let the fact that he's done it more intimidate you.

for tips-

DON'T pucker!

make sure if you know when the kiss is coming your lips are dry or too wet.

and then just let it happen