I'm nervous about my wedding night, is this normal?

Question

I have been dating this guy for almost three years. We are finally getting married some time this year. Him and I have hugged and kissed plenty of times he even has played with my breats, but we have done NOTHING more. I always have wanted to but deep im my heart with him I wanted to wait til marriage even though both him and I are not virgins. but I'm still nervous about the "wedding night". Is this normal ? and how can i get rid of this nervous feeling?

Answer 1

wedding night s*x is such a cliche

practically saying wedding night is not for s*x its for talking just talking

wedding is a long, tedious and mentally as well as physically intensive process

wedding sucks out the energy rite off u! so during wedding night just talk and have a very relaxing night!

s*x in the wedding night might have -ve effect on both of u!

Answer 2

It may go horrible. You may be completely sexually incompatible. Who knows? This is such an important part of being together I can't even imagine waiting until after I was married to have s*x. I would be nervous also.

Answer 3

Yes this is normal. Turn the nerves into excitement! This is the man that you will be with for the rest of your life!! =)

Answer 4

yes.

Answer 5

Yes it is normal, specially because you are virgin, u will have some nervousness coz it is your first time, well u have to just relax and wait for the "Big Day ", All the best for your wedding .and enjoy  

Answer 6

Perfectly normal to be nervous about the first time with someone, especially after you've already married them.

But I suspect things will go well enough. Neither of you have forgotten how to do it!