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I'm new to this whole bf/gf deal?

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Okay, so my bf and I have been going out for about a month and a half now. We haven't kissed yet. Or held hands. I want to. My theory is that he's old fashion, and he doesn't want to do anything to make me uncomfortable(<3). So, does that mean that if I wanna hold hands that I have to take his hand first? Do I have to do everything first? I'm just a little confused. What do I do?

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i think u should talk. try to talk with him about anythink u have in mind. dont hesitate. expressing ur feeling and desires and thoughts with him is the key, so u both can get to understand each other more and move ahead to satisfy each other desires(desires dont mean only s*x).

but put in mind that ur still not that close enough, it's just one month, maybe u still need some more time together to understand each other
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if u want more action, try to touch him more- like brushin up againest him, linking ur arm in his when walk or leaning on him when ur standing still. if u lean on him he's not just going to stand there he'll probally put his arm around u!
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yes massie reach out and hold his hand...he is prob shy as well,..and i was sorta like that,...and i always loved when a girl reached out and desired me, even if its just to clasp my hand! :-)
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NO,HE SHOULD BE THE ONE TEW BE HOLDIING YOUR HAND'S FIRST NOT UR'S...
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Yes, it sounds like you're going to have to make the first move.

When you're walking together, just grab his hand. :P

To have him kiss you...

When you're sitting next to each other, lay your head on his shoulder.

Maybe that could help...

Or else you're gonna have to make the first move there, too.
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Yeah.  You'll have to start it.

My first boyfriend was exactly like that.  He took a while to do any of those things, because he didn't want to make me feel uncomfortable.  We were always so awkward together, it didn't work out.  Now I wish I would have initiated things more than I did at the time.
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