I'm not a good influence of others and i want to change that but i dont do drugs or smoke so what should i do?

Question

I'm not a good influence of others and i want to change that but i dont do drugs or smoke so what should i do?

Answer 1

First of all, you're not very specific. Since we don't know exactly how you are a bad influence on people we can't help you nor give you tips. Doing drugs and or smoking doesn't always make you a bad person you know. My grandfather smokes, but he's one of the greatest role models in my life. It's what and how you do them that makes you a bad person.

And why would you want to be a good influence? Aren't you happy with just being yourself? If you really want to be a good influence focus on what makes you you. Also, changing can be very difficult. You have to have what you want to change and why you want to change clear in your head.

So i can't really give you any details or specifics since you aren't very detailed.

Answer 2

first of all be more specific.  

in generic terms, if you're not comfortable with the way you are, then change those things you don't like about yourself.

Answer 3

Could u be more specific

just try and be a better person