I am 46 and have been in a relationship with a very nice lady for a few years now. At first we used to have lots of fun together, but recently I feel this is going nowhere, we don’t live together and I don’t think we will ever. I am financially fine after my divorce, (but not rich) but she has nothing and I feel I would have to support her for the rest of our life.
My two kids (Boy and a Girl 19- 20) both have good jobs and at present live with me and we have a great relationship.
She has her two grown up kids (21 and 24) living with her in a rental unit, they are very lazy and don’t work as she does everything for them, she is of course very protective of them and will always stick up for them.
When anyone asked them to do or go out and get a job she gets angry.(only because she knows they are correct).
They always hint that I have the money and should shout them for holidays, clothes, and whatever they need.
I feel bad because I really like her but don’t know what to do.
I don’t want to live with her family.
I some time think that I would be better of alone.
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