I'm not sure how to take something my boyfriends sister said?

Question

My boyfriend is currently away but will be back within a couple of weeks. Earlier on his sister rang me and we usually get on fine (not like best friends but fairly well), she was asking if I wanted to go out somewhere with all her mates, but i've had a long week at work and don't really feel like it. Anyway I said to her jokingly: "you'll probably be sick of me in a couple of weeks when he [the boyfriend] is back" and completely seriously she said "yeah you're right, probably best you don't come out" I can tell when she was joking and she definitely wasn't this time. So how do I take this?

Answer 1

Maybe she just thinks your different when your around your boyfriend? Or maybe she thought u were just letting her down  and just really didn't wanna go out with her so she was a bit upset...and then again maybe she just was being mean! u shud confront her if your really upset

Answer 2

Hm, I would assume she was joking also. How did the conversation end? She may have just been using dead-pan humor? Why would she invite you in the first place?

Very weird. Get her brother's opinion when you can talk to him again.

Answer 3

I'd be willing to bet that she was following your lead and joking as well. Maybe you're reading into this WAY too much. Let it go, and if she ever does something questionable again, then maybe you are onto something.

Answer 4

next time u actually see her face to face just say were you actually being serious the other day on the phone like you said you were tired maybe you didnt notice she was jokin:) or jus dont say anything and see how she is with you

Answer 5

I wouldnt give it to much thought. I mean it snot about her anyways you in a relationship with the boyfriend not the sister, but in future dont leave yourself so open like that to get carried. She may have taken what you said the wrong way too who knows but its petty and I wouldnt worry about it.

Answer 6

So what...your going out with him, you can choose your friends but you cant choose your family