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I'm obsessed with him? what do i do?

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This is long but i really need some help and advice. i am 17 and a senior in high school. i was new to the school in 9th grade. in 10th grade i was set up with two boys in science class to do a project in class that day. i didn't talk too much with the guys b/c that was the first time i had met them and stuff. but like after that day, one of the boys,john, would be staring at me. i remember the first time i saw him looking at me he was in class and just staring at me. then i would be walking with my friend during lunch,and there would be lots of people around and he would be about 30 feet away and he would be staring directly at me. i always pretend i don't notice. this kept happening and i started to like him. 11th grade came and we had one class together. first day of class i was sitting alone towards the back of the class and the room was pretty empty but still a few people in the room. he sat behind me but i moved the next day to be nearer my friends and i couldn't see the board from back there. the staring continued. i would be walking up the hill after lunch and he would stare intently at my face. i was walking up a flight of stairs and he was sitting on a bench below and i happened to look at the bench and he was there,staring up directly at me. we held eyecontact a few seconds longer than normal. one day, in the class i have with john i was turned around and talking to my friend behind me. he was sitting behind her and he turned his body into the aisle really quick and looked at me while i was talking. also i was talking outside one day waiting for the teacher to open the door and i was facing one direction talking to a girl and he was watching me talk to her. one day i was walking out of the class and he was in front of me and he looked to see if his friend was behind him and he saw me there and stood up really straight when he saw me behind him. another day i was driving my car out of the parking lot and my car was stopped. he was standing to the left with his friends like 5 feet away. i could see from the corner of my eye that he was staring at me for over 30 seconds it made me uncomfortable. john is very popular and seems outgoing with his friends. i really like him and have had strong feelings for him for a while now. over a year. im shy and i pretend i don't notice him staring because i am just so shy and stuff and i don't know what to do. i like him so much and do u think he likes me back? if u are a guy, could u tell me how much u like a girl if u do this? it doesn't seem like he does this to other girls but who knows. whenever i am in his sight it seems like he stares. do u think he is obessed with me/crazy about me/or just simply likes me a little? i have a feeling he wants me to come up and talk to him but i dont know im shy and school starts in a month i need help and if u read all that i love u :).

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  1. u are young, this is normal. but anything that does not flow naturally and that u obsess to much is not normal. sweetie take it easy, mr right will come, and he will chase u.


  2. wow everything started with staring.

    BUT U KNOW WHAT I WILL TELL U SOMETHING U SHOULD ALL WAYS WAIT FOR THE GUY TO COME TO U IF HE REALLY WANTS U AND U NEVER GO TO THEM OK AS I GIRL I AM TELLING U THIS CUZ LATER ON THEY WILL SAY THAT U CAME ME I DIDN'T SO WAIT FOR HIM IF HE REALLY LOVES U HE WILL FOR SURE COME OK BUT U DON'T GO THEY DO THAT SO LATER ON THEY WILL TELL U THAT U CAME TO ME SO BE CAREFUL .

    AND GOOD LUCK :)


  3. Be care full. First find out if he has some close friends that you know them and you can ask them about him.What is his social life in the school and outside from the school.Find more information about him through his friends and keep everything you felt about him just in your heart until the right time comes.Because if he is not for you you ll be disappointed because of the hope you have for him.Be smart and didn't rush if he is in love he will find a way to come close to you.

  4. I doubt ur obssed u just have a really huge crush lol im a 17 yr in high skool to but if u think u r then.... try and think of negetive stuff about him and stuff  or just try talking to another guy to the point were u hardly reemmber the other dude

  5. aww,dude

    i might just be the only one who read every bit of that.

    took me a while to finish,

    but i got the point a little after the 9 or 10th sentence.

    youu say you're obsessed with him?!

    girl, he sounds obsessed with youu!

    any guy who can't take his eyes off of you for longer than 5 seconds must really be thinking something

    &if he does it multiple times then he is obviously into youu!

    see, our problem is us girls can never find out what is going through a guy's mind when we catch their glance.

    but i do know that most guys--no matter how popular or outgoing they may seem--might put on a front when with their guy friends,but when they catch the eye of the girl theyre head over hills for it all changes.

    it sounds alot like he is awaiting you to make the first move.

    he has been doing this for a while from what youu said,

    &if he hasn't given up by now then he is deffinately wishing youu would come to your senses &let him know if youre into him as much as he is into youu.

    i might be wrong,

    but youu will never know if you never try.

    &the chance is worth taking.

    so go for it,girl

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