I'm obsessed with this.. help?

Question

Ok so I've been annoying my dad about Ice Skating lessons for a while now, and he thinks i'm getting distracted by it in school so now he said i should stop talking about it until i catch up. ONE PROBLEM, he made me changed my desktop from a skating background to a plain one and he doesn't want me to think about it or talk about it. and i'm getting angry! I REALLY WANNA WORK HARD! But idk everytime i try to sit down and focus I get distracted easily! What should i do? please help. i could of already started skating lessons in February of this year but i've been wasting my time on youtube and my grades are so low :(

Answer 1

thats just weird

Answer 2

I went through something similar to your situation two years ago I was so behind in my work but I stayed up all not and day and said to myself  I'm going to complete my work so that I can have a summer vacation. I stayed up day in and day out working on those mountains of papers/assignments. It seemed like I would never get done with them; I kept praying and encouraging myself even though my dad kept saying c**p like "It's  too late now, you're going to fail the 8th grade". I was depressed and felt like my life was over and I'd never have a summer break when he said that, but I lifted my head with a serious face and said, in my mind, he's wrong I will have a summer break and I'm not going to sleep until I'm done with all of these assigments (30 to be exact) in a week, that was the deadline for all the assignments). So I didn't get any sleep for a whole week (i drank tea). it was very very hard. i began to cry but I kept encouraging myself, went on yahoo to search for articles on assignments, went to online tutoring and euclidlibrary.org and I finished and got to have a summer break. my point is try your best to get on track and set a time to go on the sites after school. Wasting your time will only cause things to get worse. focus straight on your goal every time you sit down to do your work. tell yourself "I'm going to complete my work because I want to be able ice skate." telling yourself why you want to complete your work  will motivate you to get it done , so that you can pursue your dream. don't forget to pray and take action; prayer/faith without action will not work. you can do it! have faith!

Answer 3

if u reli want to do it .... GET ON WITH YOUR STUDIES!!!!

stop wastin your time on youtube and stuff lyk that... if u get ur grades up ur dad will trust u can hold the responsibility...

ice skating is a beautiful sport!! i have been doing it for 13 years now ... i wont lie it duz get in the way of skool work sometimes but its your responsibility to keep up!!

by the sounds of it u seem pretty eager .... u cld go far if ur really up to the training ....

so i think . get off the youtube and all those sites .. get ur grades up and get ur skates on and start learning ... its a beautiful sport and if u really wanna do it ... you shouldnt let it go... trust me if u get good enough this sport will take u places!!!!!

good luck =]

Answer 4

I think about skating alot too, but it dosent mean I get low grades (but trust me, I know it can be distracting!).

You should tell your dad how much skating means to you.

Just forget about it when you need to concentrate, mabey promise yourself something? Like a little treat to encrouage you to study.

Then again, mabey if you do the lessons you will stop thinking about it so much, so tell your dad that.

Don't worry, you'll be okay in the long run, just dont let it get to far, and stand up for yourself!

Good Luck!