I'm pretty sad because my 21st birthday is next week?

Question

i never thought for my 21st bday i would be a mother, short on money because I'm not working at the moment and we are tight on bills and also i don't like my body because I'm at 175 and i use to be before 125, I'm not use to this body

has anyone gone though this??? any advice to cheer me up

Answer 1

In the same boat you are! I'm 21 and while it was a little sad that I couldn't go out with all my friends and celebrate, i would have much rather been home with my daughter anyway. She is my world. I am a SAHM and my husband works, so we are also a bit tight on money right now. And my body is definitely different after having my daughter and i definitely have not adjusted to the way i look now. but when you have a baby, you give up all the other partying and freedom you had before. it's definitely not where i thought i'd be at 21, but i wouldn't change it for the world.