I'm really annoyed with my friends right now, and i need advice? :$?

Question

so my "friends" and me, before school ended, planned out all this stuff we were going to do during the summer. the problem? they all seemed to do other stuff, and no one even bothered to ask me. i sound like i'm being selfish, but i'm really not. i just wanted to hang out with my friends. and if i was invited, it wasn't anything i wanted to do, and i always ended up being ignored. and i recently saw a movie with two of my friends, and i felt so akward around them. they just talked about other people, and excluded me. i tried to think of things to say, but i couldn't. and i was thinking, and it doesn't even seem like we're all that good of friends. we don't really talk about anything that friends should talk about, and i feel like i don't know them anymore.

what i need help with is how do i get across the message that i feel so excluded and different from them? please no rude stuff, i'm not in the mood.

Answer 1

Who cares about them. Dump them.  The more ur close with ur friends, the more distance ur gonna have with ur family members.

Answer 2

I know what your going through.. Im so tired of it. I'm fourteen, and now everyone seems to ingore me & think other people are way more important than I am. Ughh. I was in the popular crowd last year, and now I am so fed up with it I just went to the middle crowd and I am a lot happier. Believe me, don't confront them about it because it will make them hate you more.

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Answer 3

that's retarded of them, but maybe you could even try talking to them, i know it hard.. but maybe one time be like, how come you didn't invite me for that.. but the main thing, i've learned from past expirience is always keep a smile on your face and joke, like come up with some silly stuff, tell a story about something that happened to you.. or even just say oh yeah i went out here and there to sound as if you were busy.. just don't show that it gets to you..and get involved your self.. like you call and make the plans don't wait for them(if i did that me and my friends would never hang).. but if you want to show your excluded, best way to do is to confront them because if you don't,, they might continue with this routine and you could lose them..

ps in the movie situation, get involve ask who they were talking about and when they tell you extragerate your feelings a bit and say something on the same topic, to get comfortable with them.. haha just get involve and always smile becuase if your sad your going to regret it and say man i wish i was happy and you could be.. good luck!!