I'm really bored and lonely this summer .. what can I do?

Question

I've already asked this question but I guess I asked in the wrong category and didn't get many answers:

Well, theres only one month left of summer, or three weeks-ish. I'm seriously bored and lonely and therefore miserable. I only have a few good friends I can spend time with or hang out with. One of them is always busy cuz she has a job and stuff, and the other one is busy with her "other" friends so she always plans something with me like 2 weeks in advance. My other friend hasn't been in touch with me for a while and she has plans this weekend too probably, I've asked her a million times to hang out but she never replies or picks up the phone. A couple of my other friends are rarely allowed to go outside or hang out (overprotective parents).

I feel really lonely cuz I see everyone else is spending time with their friends. And a couple days ago there was this huge party which most of my friends were invited to but I wasnt, and there's pictures everywhere on facebook, so they make me feel worse. My mom's usually at work, I don't have a bike anymore, I've read all the good books in the house already, I tried gardening for the past few days and all it gave me was more boredom and mosquito bites. I don't want to spend the rest of summer like this. Any ideas about what I can do??

Answer 1

Hey maybe you can do things that you've enjoy doing by yourself or play games and chat online with other people. I'm going through the same things you do too, i cant really hang out with my friends cause supposedly there busy doing stuff and cause of my overprotective mom. I just stay home and plays game, read sometimes, cook you know when im hungry and when one of my friend is not busy i'll hang out with them over the weekend. Maybe you should just be happy doing things alone for a while and when one of your friends calls you to hang out then do it cause summer is almost over. This probably the only summer that these kind of things will happen to you so wait for the summer that is coming up and see what happens

Answer 2

i have the same freakin problem!!!

lol. but yeah just enjoy some chill time. walk around the city REALLY early in the morning. around maybe 6-7 am? it feels so relaxing and refreshing. especially if you take advantage waking up around noon every day during the summer. also if you have a camera, take some professional kind of pictures outside! also, you could clean your room and maybe even decorate it! getting ready for school ahead of time is also very satisfying. write down a list of things you want (clothes, accesories, new makeup, etc) and try to check off all of them(:

also following your parents to work (if possible)could be a time killer!

and wherever you go try going by walking if you dont have a bike, like grocereies, the library. ya'know?

getting some exercise could be a fun way of getting fit just before the school starts. i've been trying to lose a few pounds. and it's actually working.

dont feel guilty for not accomplishing anything for the summer.

and try to plan things you want to do NEXT summer.

have a nice day

:D

Answer 3

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TKCGe2Ezr... Jacks excersice vid

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nzeh_7kqJ... Jack the wild man

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UWIyQMZ6F... Jacks second personal ad

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MOsqV1yXz... Jack pre youtube

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Msb5gQKo... Jack's Widl ride of Dance  

Answer 4

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Answer 5

maybe you can try visiting tourist places around your city, or if you like helping people or working, you can volunteer somewhere or get a job. if you are creative you can start an art project or something. or if you have any goals, try to achieve them =)