I'm really depressed about life..can you help me?

Question

well, i'm just down on life right now..

for the past three years, i've only had one real girlfriend and she pretty much hated me those entire like 3 weeks. since then i've probably 'talked' to maybe 15-20 girls. about 1-2 girls a month. i see everyone else have somebody and they look happier than i have ever been..

i just feel like at this point in my life something inside of me is missing..like i'm incomplete. i know everyday i'm unhappy and every day i'm having an even worse day than the one before..so that means every day you see me, that's probably the worst day of my life.

i just want to meet a girl who can give me something to believe in..something to wake up in the morning and look forward to..

usually, i would be mad and start breaking things, like always..but this time i'm just depressed because i know nothing will change, no matter how many things i break, and i know this will probably happen again soon.

and it's not like i have no game or anything, because people tell me all the time how well i can articulate for a guy my age (16) and how funny i am. maybe it could have something to do with my serious face. i hardly ever smile and i look angry all the time, but that couldn't be it...

i'm just so tired of this..

i just want to wake up and know i've got a girl who i can share this part of my life with..

Answer 1

Until you can learn to love life and like yourself as you are, no girl worth your time will want to be with you. You sound like someone who would be unintentionally very clingy. Being the center of someone's world may sound romantic, but when you're the one in the middle it's downright creepy. I speak from experience here.

Learn to look forward to small things. Watch the sun rise. Touch a leaf and marvel at what it does for the tree. Rescue a pill bug from the sidewalk, or a worm from a puddle. You just made a difference in a life.

Much more difficult, but worthwhile, is coming to accept that we are not in full control of what happens. Learning that you are tiny in the grand scheme of things can either be overwhelming... or amasing.

Answer 2

Why not try just being your self around girls,and not putting up false walls. You say everyone said you have a nice personally,then let it show more often. Lose the angry look and smile,people with a smile on there face get attention while ones who do not smile get left unnoticed. Get a bit of a make-over,and a new hair-color and cut,and some new clothes. With a new look your self-esteem should get builted up in know time at all. But remember girls do not like guys who brag on themshelves,let them do it too you. Oh,by the way girls like nice comments given to them as well,just don't over do it. Ask one of them to the movies our out to eat.If the girl is into sports,take her too a game-room our mini-golf or batting-cage. Now if she is shy and quite,ask her too come over and watch a movie at your place,let her pick it out. Our go for a walk our ride and get something of her choice.

Answer 3

you're only 16!

Answer 4

try this:

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Answer 5

your 16 bro, chill out...

Answer 6

The greatest cause of depression about life is that it is not really being lived.  You are focusing on others to define how you feel about yourself.  I don't want to say this is dumb, but it is a sure fire way of failing.  

Living life makes it worth living.  Her is how you start.

Forget personal relationships until you have developed yourself.

Volunteer, Give, Spend time doing for others without expecting anything in return.  When you apply yourself in this fashion you will find out a lot of new things about yourself and your ability to be a great person on your own.

Here is where the benefits blow you away,  Others will notice your dedication, persistence, caring, ability, and self worth.  This will put you in good standing with people that matter.  You will develop a social life without even knowing it.  On top of that the people you are with are people that have value, just like you.

Life can be an adventure worth living.

Good luck.