I'm really hurt/confused about my bf's behavior?

Question

Well we're both in high school, but the thing of it is...

We had quite a rough spot over the summer, and we've had problems communicating since then, and now tht schools started he's busy w/ school and clubs and everything else he does. and i don't see him at school except for a sec in the hall. And then he doesn't call me very often, he's always busy or tired. and i understand but i wish tht he would try to more often. But i guess the bad thing about it is, he knows tht i won't leave him, i love him too much (NO BS PLZ) and i just wish tht he'd put in a lil bit more effort into talking and seeing me in his spare time. Wat can i do?

Answer 1

Maybe you should make the effort to call him, it sounds as if you just wait for him to initiate contact. Try going on a date every weekend, he shouldn't be too busy then. If he can't do that then it sounds like he doesn't have time to have a girlfriend or just feels like it isn't as important as everything else. It sounds like you're insecure about your place in his life, so try to talk to him face to face. If you feel like he's a bad boyfriend, maybe it's time to move on.