I'm really worried. My friend has been looking at p**n sites and she wants to start having s*x. Help!?

Question

I need some help because I don't know what to do! Please help!

Any suggestions to say!

Please!

Thanks

Answer 1

The choice to have s*x or not should never be taken lightly. The implications can be life altering--pregnancy, STDs, rape, reputation, etc. all can stop a life before it really gets a chance to get started.

I would tell to stay away from the p**n sites for starts. It is very important  to understand that p**n is not s*x. p**n will only confuse you as to what is healthy and normal. Stay away from it.

Tell your friend, if she really wants to have a fulfilling relationship, take the time to make sure you are the best person you can be. Take your education seriously. Develop all your talents to the fullest.

And when the time comes, you will meet the most amazing person who will treat you with the respect, dignity, and consideration you dederve.

But you won't find any of that if you keep going down the path you are heading down.

Answer 2

according to what u have written....u seem to be very young!!

dont get into any sexual act unknowingly as at this age(teenage yrs) all this seem veryy illusing and fun....but u can actually end up ruining your life....!!

tell her to not get addicted to pron sites and stay away away from them as much as she can!!!!!

when u arrive at the age to do all this sort of activities...only then shall u think of it.....!!

Answer 3

Don't let her do it even if it costs ALL of your money,if she make it then she is a w***e and $lut bi1ch,fu*k her,she is a w***e!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 4

Depending on your age looking at p**n really is perfectly normal.  It's not at all surprising that you've become curious about that sort of thing.  There is however no need to rush out and have s*x.  I know that I definitely wish that I had waited until I was at least 18-20 and that is not something I can ever go back and do again.  It's not like dying your hair and if you don't like it you can just dye it back.  It's a decision that you make for the rest of your life.  Now it's something I will be embarrassed about forever.  How am I supposed to explain teenage promiscuity to my kids.  

All you can do for your friend is let her know that you don't think she should do it.  That just because what she sees on TV makes it seem like every teenager in the whole world is out having s*x that isn't the case.  That you don't plan on having s*x and many of your friends don't either.  

Very Very Very most importantly however is to make sure that if she does do it that she is responsible and uses condoms.  Not just sometimes ALL THE TIME!!!!!

Answer 5

how old is she anyway but tell her mom as a last resort and just try talking to her and say you dont think shes ready or old enough

Answer 6

If either of you are under 17, don't do it. It could cost jail time... honest. Otherwise, you should both want it for it to happen. No one should be presured into this.  

Answer 7

I dont see how the two connect?  Suggest masterbating instead.  Or wait until you find the "one"  

Like mentioned above, its something you cant reverse.  I hear it from girls all the time, saying they wish they would of waited.  

What about watching p**n makes her want to have s*x?  Just the act?  Masterbation can curve the urge.