I'm really worried about my friend help

Question

my friend is really pretty, smart and has lots of friends. She is in grade 8 and she is dating a guy who is in grade 11. I'm in grade 10 and she is 2 years younger than me so i am always looking out for her. I am really worried because this guy has a rep. for being a ''bad boy''. I'm worried he is going to do ''something'' to her. I just have a feeling.How can i talk tell her that this guy only wants her for one reason. And do you think it's weird that a grade 11 is interested in a grade 8.

Answer 1

you should ask your friend about it, you know wether or not she relizes this already because that might just be why she wants to go out with him.

but yea theres not harm in telling her how you feel.

Answer 2

get an older guy friend to drill a hole in him and tell him that if he ever REMOTELY does ANYTHING that the girl doesnt want,

then he can rely on the fact that his face will be mush.

make sure that the girl also has a talk with him.

good job for you to be looking out for your friend, thats very admirable.

Answer 3

I agreed with you, it's weird that a grade 11 to be interested in grade eight because you can never know when this guy is going to take advantage of her.  So, just keep looking out to her.

Answer 4

ok this rad tech gal is really pissing me off shes like shes a s**t hes a purvurt to everybody who really needs help and i agree with you he wants to do things i say u tell her starit up

PLZZ! answer mine i need help and all the answers i can get for my friend dont be judgemental also!

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Ava Mai

Answer 5

Not only is it weird... it's too bad.  You're right, he only wants her for one reason.  As her friend you need to make sure she understands about the consquences of s*x and how to protect herself from STDs and pregnancy.

She will get hurt... just be there for her when it happens.

Answer 6

Hes obviously a pervert.

Answer 7

Well, one-yes I think something is wrong.  Otherwise why would a Junior in High School be interested in an 8th grader!  No Way......do her parents know would be my next question.

If not, you could with anonymity tell them for the good of your friend.  If this guys 'rep' says anything, it would say STD! at least.  If you are afraid of her not believing you, like the jealously thing, try having someone else in the know talk to her.

Kudos to you for being a friend!

Good Luck

Momma P

Answer 8

he is to old for her guys that age only want one thing & omg he is almost out of highschool...he needs to get someone whose at least in highschool she could do better then him

Answer 9

well for some reason older guys like to go for the little ones because they know they will be treated like a god that hole "omg you are older than me so you mush know it all" thing but if you are really worried about her just tell her and if she does not want to hear it let her find out on her own (which most of us will do anyways) and if "something dose happen that turns out bad just be there for her  

Answer 10

Talk to your friend and smack the guy across the face. Your suspicions are probably right. Not all guys with bad reputations are still bad, but this one seams to be. How old is she anyway?

She should be very grateful to have a friend like you.

crik