I'm sad?! Someone please help! Friend and school problems!?

Question

Okay. I started school a few days ago, and there is already drama. First of all, my friend since 3rd grade has been ignoring me for the dumbest reasons. She says it's because of the music I like, and that I've changed, and I get the feeling she is embarrassed to be around me. Here's why: She also told me that people have been saying I've turned "emo" because I wear skinny jeans and the music I like. I don't cut my wrists or anything. I hate labels and judgements, and I just want it to stop.

I really don't feel good and tomorrow's Friday, but I don't know how I'm going to get through it. I hate middle school!!!! It sucks. I want summer back. =( I'm so sad, I'm about to cry.

P.S. Sorry, I sound like a drama queen. I just need advice.

Answer 1

Find new friends, you know you might find much better ones. You might feel a little scared but don't let it get you down. You will get through that. There are lots of things to learn and people to befriend. Learn to cope and do the best you can, that's one lesson that school teaches you.

Answer 2

Huh?! Wait so everyone who wears skinny jeans are emo? Dang, all those fashion models must be then...

If she's going to be like that, then she obviously doesn't deserve to be your friend. Appearance and music taste is no reason not to be someone's friend, it's immature. Tomorrow when she says something about your skinny jeans, say "Ehem, if you didn't notice these are in style, but it's okay if you want to be different." Then be all smiles and walk away, you need to find some better friends that accept you and aren't immature like that. Don't let this little ....kid ruin your year of middle school(:

Answer 3

Hi Izzy,

Don't let it get to you.

The cloths you wear or the music you listen to should never matter when it comes to friendships. She might have meet some new people and overheard something about their taste in cloths and music.Things will cool off soon. Talk with your other friends, go to class and smile when you see her. Just be yourself and you can't go wrong.

Take care

Cella

PS You don't sound like a drama queen.  

Answer 4

Your friend just wants to be "cool" and fit in with everyone and she probably listens to the music that everyone listens to, but you listen to what you like and wear what you like, your the REAL cool one, and you do what you like, so if your friend can't accept you for who you are, start talking with other classmates and make new friends, try talking to people who like your kind of music, talk to people in your class like when you get into groups and stuff...

*Good luck!!!!  

Answer 5

Move on really, someone who's going to treat their friend like that is not worth being around find some new friends, it's a new school year (And it only gets worse...)

Answer 6

Aww. don't cry.I feel your pain. I didn't like middle school either, but i got through it. I think there is suppose to be drama in middle school. everybody is growing up and figuring themselves out. i also think that a true friend would no matter what be there for you. As for the labels, i hate them too, because a person can be much more than that.

Answer 7

Mirror  Mirror on the wall, who is the fairest of them all, and the Mirror said " You are my beautiful child, because You are You, and we like You, just the way you are "............and those who like to gossip and cant mind their own business?? .well " stick and and stones will break your bones but narrow minded people wont "

Enough said?