I'm scared i'll lose him...?

Question

My boyfriend and i have been together for almost eight months after being apart for 11 months after an 18th month relationship.

This month we'll be attending different sixth form's and i'm a bit worried. I know it's stupid but i'm worried he'll meet somebody else or cheat/lie to me. Most of the time i'm fine about it. Also, i won't be starting until nearer the end of the month, so it's going to be difficult. I don't want to spilt up as it was too painful the last time. Recently we've been a bit weird with each other. Like we both feel the other one doesn't like us anymore.

Whats going on? I know i'm being stupid. How can i stop worrying and just let it be? It would be different if we were both starting at the same time as we'd both be experiencing it together almost.

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Answer 1

At least hes not going to a University. Try to stop worrying, I spend nearly 2 years over 6 hours apart from my boyfriend. He wouldnt find someone else if he loves you, and if he did at least sooner rather than later. But he wont :) You said hes acting the same, so hes proberly thinking the exact same! The best thing to do is sit him down or call him and just let him know that hes the one for you....

Its only a few weeks apart, just keep intrested like ask him what he done and things then he will feel like your involved...

Hope it helped

Lv Kte <3 x

Answer 2

i think your just insecure.

you cant do anyhting to help it if he does and he knows that its his mistake if he does.

but to me it sounds like your breaking up anyway.

Answer 3

its not stupid to feel this way i mean its only human to maybe the only reason you've been off with each othr is either because your starting sixth forms or maybe its to  with that neither of you know what its going to be like in the sixth forms. The best thing to do is to talk to each other and if an argument starts just let it go dont fight just calm down and talk it through if you both love each other you'll pull through anything