I'm sick of this!?

Question

So, I kinda get teased a lot by my friends and family. It's been going on for a while. Nothing hurtful, just playful teasing...some of the time, anyway. it has escalated to the point where I'm really and truly hurt. I also kinda get pushed arounda lot. I've asked people to stop, but (of course) they don't. Well, I'm sick of it. I wan tto startstandn up for myself in this type of situation. But...how do I respond? Rather it be other kids at school pushing em around, or my family playfully teasing me, how should I react in a way that would ge tthem to leave me alone?

Answer 1

stick your ground

Answer 2

for family----

just explain to them it really hurts you

or ignore them

or just say something else playfully back

for school----

ignore them

or give them a snide comeback

or the walking away with the finger up in the air worked for me

good luck

Answer 3

HAve you just tried to totally ignore them?  

Or better yet tell them straight up...hey sometimes when you tease you hurt my feelings.  They may not realize thats what is goin on......talking it out is the best thing to do...you cant just go around punching everyone that offends you!

Answer 4

tell them about it

Answer 5

at first you should let them know that its not funny to you and when they try to make hurtful jokes, just dont laugh.

if this doesnt work then stand your ground and tell them youve had enough of it. dont say it in a mean way, just politely(but make it definite) that you dont like them teasing you. say something like "i know you think its a joke but its not to me. and sometimes it hurts my feelings really bad, and i'd really appreciate it if you stopped."

hah, idkk. something like that. hope i helped & good luck!

Answer 6

I would get picked on every day by my brother since the time i was like 2, it would get meaner and meaner and meaner everyday, and it was so vicious and cruel...

anyway, i have a terrible anger problem now that i'm older (go figure) , and the next time he started mocking me, I just grabbed him by his hair and punched him in the face, then threw a heavy book at his head. it seemed to upset him.

Basically no 21 year old is expecting his 17 year old little sister to just deck him, after many years of being the "top dog" and me being DEFENSELESS..

I suggest you watch Tap Out and learn some moves, like i did =D

it feels good to hit your annoying family members...so good. lol

Answer 7

well just say stop or no! if they threaten and u feel threatened then u can legally punch em for defense thatll show em! had the same problem huney!

Answer 8

Tell them how you truthfully feel about it, and ask them to think how they would feel, if people were doing it to them.

Answer 9

Kill them.

Kill them all...

Answer 10

Dont give them any kind of reaction. That is what they want they must like your reaction or they wouldnt keep doing it. Humble yourself, which means think highly of yourself if you have to wake up, look in the mirror, and tell yourself your worth more. Remember , it is not their teasing, it is your insecurities that make it bother you so much.

Answer 11

do some homework on sharp-witted comedians. memorize their comebacks. think of yourself as a witty, don't mess with me, kinda guy. Don't curl up in a ball. You only make yourself a target that way. Trust me, been there, done that. Ppl gonna be mean to you? Then let it fly right back at 'em!

*I'm busy now. Can I ignore you some other time?*

*I don't know what makes you so stupid, but it really works!*

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