I'm slightly confused...

Question

Okay, I don't know what I'm considered or even if it's anything different. I'll start off my saying that I'm a girl.

I've found that I'm physically attracted to guys, and I've only liked guys before. But, when it comes to actual bodies and everything, I find myself finding the woman's body shape more pleasant. It's not like I don't like a good looking guy, because I do. But I find myself, maybe this is my artist side, just not finding a man's body the same. It just feels more awkward.

I'm in my mid-teens, so it might just be the whole awkwardness of dating and that I've finally come to terms with my own body. But I'm not sure if it really means anything about who I am, or if it's a kind of normal feeling for my age. Am I g*y/bi and just don't realize it? Or is it a normal thing?

Answer 1

I think it's a completely normal art-related thing. You can find people of either s*x attractive without being attracted TO them.

(And as a side note: Most people agree that girls are just prettier than guys in any case because they feel strongly about their appearances, and try to look their best.  Guys, however...well. Sometimes they just don't look too good.)

Answer 2

I'm straight, but I think that the female body is much lovelier than the male body. We have the softness and curves that make it beautiful, while the male body is just kind of there, with a bunch of junk hanging off the front. (Sorry, guys, no offense...)

It's possible to find someone attractive without being sexually attracted to them. I think Angelina Jolie is hot, but I don't want to have s*x with her. And since you are an artist, you are even more in tune with the subtle nuances of each body type than the normal everyday person is. I don't think you're g*y.

Answer 3

artisticly i would have to agree that the female form is more graceful.

Then again a lean muscular guy is nothing to shake a stick at.

Answer 4

I think you're a screaming L*****n..arrrgghh!!!!

meagan you're a L*****n as well. perhaps the two of you should meet up and admire each other bodies.

Answer 5

My best friend is an artist too, and she finds men way prettier than women, but she’s straight.

According to what you said, you are bisexual (all people on earth has the potential to be it) with L*****n preferences.

All humans can appreciate beauty, in despise of our sexual preference, there’s no g*y man who can’t find beauty in a woman for being a woman, or a L*****n woman who can’t find beauty in a man for being a man, the issue is which gender we find prettier, what we like the most.

Psychologically, sexual preference can go through a wide spectrum from 100% g*y to 100% straight, now biologically, we are g*y or straight, depending on our brain’s s*x.

Straight women and g*y men (I put them together as they share common brain anatomy/physiology) find men better looking, straight men and lesbians (I put them together for the same reason) find women better looking. This things aren't chosen, they are hardwired (before birth), this could be a phase, or you are a woman with a male brain, that's why you find women prettier. Yet there's no reason to panic, around 8% of women have a masculine brain so it's not rare.

There's nothing wrong with it.

I hope it helps.

Greetings.

Meagan: It seems you are too young, wait a couple of years, or if you are not a child, then just stop pretending you're straight, we are in the XXI century, there's nothing wrong with being homosexual. I find men prettier than women, and I'm g*y, i don't lie and call myself straight. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, there's not such thing as an objective vision of beauty, and our grasp on the subject is heavily conditionated by our sexuality. If what you said about artists was true, then men would have the ultimate body because artists like Da Vinci or Michelangelo found men better looking, but everybody knows they preferred persons of their own gender because they were g*y, like every person who finds people of their own gender better looking. And that's not  a crime!

Answer 6

this is the age u go through a lot of pububurty so it might just be normal or u just might have problems not to be rude or anything.