I'm so afraid..will this change everything? :(?

Question

My Boyfriend is going to be a freshman in college this year, and i'm still going to be in highschool.

I'm so afraid of him going off to college. It will only be two hours away, but he will only get to come home on weekends, then eventually every other weekend. I don't know how to handle It.

It probably seems like i don't trust him by saying this, but i really do, more than i trust anyone. I just know that college won't be what he expects and that he will be meeting new people. I'm just terrified that he will find someone else, or rethink our relationship.

He assures me that i'm his everything, and that he is in love and going to spend the rest of his life with me, but i can't help to have these feelings.

I feel so immature, and guilty for it, but it's the hardest thing i've ever gone through.

I'm so in love with him, and i don't want anything to come between us.

Is this normal? What do you think about this?

Mature answers only please, thanks in advance :)

Answer 1

if you trust him, and he loves you, you have nothing to worry about. you should know that people do most of their maturing and growing up in college. if you are meant to be together, everything will be fine. if not, you are still young and have plenty of time to meet "the one"

Answer 2

don't worry Darling your boyfriend will sort it out with you please reply to my problem thanks peace out

Answer 3

Well i think tht u should stay w. him. and i know tht things might feel out of place but i know i can deal w/ them........

Answer 4

It's very normal for you to feel this way. When everything's going so well, it is difficult to be away from each other.

However, this will be a very good test on your relationship. The time/distance can help both of you to ascertain whether this is really what both of you want.

Yes, the worst thing is that he strays. But then this proves that he cannot withhold temptation and that his feelings are not as strong as he claims. Therefore, it will be your little consolation to find out sooner and move on.

It is horrible to have to wonder what he is up to when you are not together. I've experienced it myself!

Keep yourself occupied with meaningful things, catch up on the stuff you had always wanted to do but had held off.

Live for yourself!

Wishing you the best! :)

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Answer 5

You're not in love with him, and he's not in love with you. I know that at your young age, you think you know what love is. I thought I knew too. But you don't.

Chances are that you would end up moving on whether he went to college or not, so I think you two should go your separate ways. A long distance relationship is hard enough for mature people. At 18 and younger, statistically, you don't stand much of a chance.

And please don't make decisions about college or your future career on the basis of a relationship. Big mistake.